Yes, I invited PartSkeptic to look at this thread. I'll respond in detail soon.
Great. Some more info. I do not let the querent handle the cards. They bend them, and in my opinion degrade them. Since the reader is the one who is supposed t have the "gift", it make sense that it is the reader's shuffle that removes the randomness from the cards. And now that I think about it, any Tarot reader I have gone to does the same.
I do not ask the person what their question is. I tell them the reading I am going to do applies to the next six months or so. How can one say that they are in a happy marriage when two years later there is a bitter divorce. I do not first put down a card to represent them. The first card must be the key card which tells me what the reading is going to be about.
I do not memorize the cards and their meanings. Too much information, especially since I do this very infrequently. I look at the layout and each card. I do know what each position represents. I get a general feel based on what symbol on the card seems to stand out. Only then do I reference the book to look up the meaning of each card, and decide what meaning is relevant. The cards must tell a "story" that is fairly specific.
Only once I have the story do I tell the person what the cards say. The person does not speak, and I focus on the cards, not the person.
The reading I did for a woman was all about problems in their relationship, and the bitterness and hatred between them. Since I had met the couple in group beach walks, and there was no evidence of problems, I told the woman that there must be an influence from her brother who was going through a very nasty divorce, and that it had to be his reading. I did tell her exactly what the cards were saying. Two weeks later she left her husband, left the house and left the kids. She let him know just how bitter she was. This was not a case of a self-fulfilling prophecy, although it may have triggered the divorce.
There are many other ways to ask the cards for information, and I make up my own layouts depending on what information I want. So do your better psychics. When I see a psychic use the standard layout, and give me multiple meanings for each card, I am skeptical of their abilities.
I know one guy who does this at a well-known shop that advertises in-house psychics. He was a guide for a nature walk, and masseuse for a country spa I went to on a number of occassions. He is not on the level, and makes claims to impress his clients. I think he attracts spirits that are not good.
I am very particular about invoking a Power of Good before doing a reading, because readings can be influenced by mischievous spirits. If someone does not do this, then I would not trust them. I even do it when doing "fun" readings.