Remember, she has also stated this same guy was at her lecture and within hearing distance of her discussion in the bar. So that means he would have been in range of the camera.
Within range of the camera? Sure. Within the frame of the photo? Not necessarily. Someone standing to the right of the frame could easily hear what she's saying. And, again, the photo is a snapshot of less than a second. She was in the bar for 10 hours. He could have not arrived yet, gone for a wee, or been stood at the right hand side of the bar at that particular moment. Or any number of other things. Her not recognising him in that photo is not good evidence that he doesn't exist.
And if she was able to recall his face on the 2 occasions in bold, why would her mind go blank after his accosting her in an elevator? Apparently this encounter made quite an impression, yet she could provide no description beyond approximate age and race. For me it just doesn't add up, but then I'm one of the duller knives in this drawer.
Perhaps it doesn't add up. But, then, it's an anecdote told by someone who had been drinking for 10 hours by the time of the events of the story. There are any number of reasons it could not add up that don't equate to Watson lying.
The absolute best we can say is that we don't know.
Could we not all agree that what our hypothetical EG did was at least poor form? A woman alone in a confined space with a stronger male making a arguably suggestive request? Had he invited her for a coffee in the bar or nearby restaurant, I would say she was totally overreacting. But given the possible sexual overtones of his request made in a confined space, I can see how RW or any woman could have found it a bit threatening.
To be honest, I kind of fall in the middle. I can completely understand how she could find that situation unwelcome and a little threatening. I can also understand how a shy guy could want to get her on her own before asking her to get together and for it not to occur to him that it could be seen as threatening. And, incidentally, you're assuming that he was stronger.
Anyway, I don't really have a problem with her original video. I'm not a fan of people who talk for other people. It's been a while since I watched the video, but IIRC she did seem to make the case that such an advance would be unwelcome to any woman. I can understand how people could find it presumptuous of her to speak for them in this manner, but I have no problem with her saying "guys, don't do that" as general advice - it's
good advice.
The other part of the video that, again IIRC, I take issue with is the way she described what he did as sexualising her, in the sense of making her a sex object. Sure, he showed a sexual interest in her, but he also explicitly said that he was interested in her because of her brain and personality, rather than it being a "phwoar, look at the norks on
that!"-type thing. So, while she's free to feel whatever way she wants about it, I think that that particular complaint seems a little OTT.
Where I think she behaved badly was in her responses to those who disagreed with her, most notably Stef McGraw.
As I said earlier in the thread McGraw is the only person I think came out of this debacle well. She originally wrote a blog about it. She was then excited to hear Watson speak, and then shocked and upset to see herself called out in public and being equated to those who send Watson death and rape threats. She didn't make a scene, as she decided it was neither the time nor the place but instead wrote another blog post in response. Then she moved on with her life and never looked back.
Other than McGraw, I think that a lot of people on both sides have constructed poor arguments, exhibited groupthink and bandwagon jumping, have shouted at each other rather than talking to each other, tried to shut down and belittle opposition rather than attempting dialogue, and just generally waved their penises at each other. It is, for the most part, utterly pathetic, no matter which side you fall on.