Possibly laughing has interfered with your ability to use reason and logic, or maybe that inability is the cause of your mirth.
Either way, you are attempting to use fallacies of logic to make your case.
Ben did not mention "licensed" gun owners, and I did not mention" licensed" automobile owners. The legality of the possession of either of these items is not applicable, nor is the raw number of gun related fatalities, only unintentional gun fatalities.
The number of traffic fatalities in 2010 was 33,808, and I would feel comfortable saying that the vast majority of them were unintentional. The number of unintentional firearms deaths in 2010 was 606.
There are (also as of 2010) 137 million automobiles ( private and commercial) and 300 million (estimated) firearms in the US with about 1 person in four owning at least one gun.
Statistically, 55 times the number of people were killed accidentally by vehicles during that time than by firearms even though there are more firearms than automobiles and roughly the same number of people (1 in 4) possess each.
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/news/nation/2010-09-09-1Aroaddeaths09_ST_N.htm
http://webappa.cdc.gov/cgi-bin/broker.exe
http://www.numberof.net/number-of-automobiles-in-the-us/
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_many_guns_are_in_the_united_states_of_America
That owning a firearm
is a right, one guaranteed by the Constitution and affirmed by SCOTUS makes it the default position. I do not need to defend it, you need to provide a compelling reason for requesting the government interfere with it.
Appeals to emotion, fallacies of substitution, broad brush statements,appeals to incredulity and laughing moronically at what you believe to be witty and urbane quips, does not meet the standard of a compelling reason.
There is no disconnect, save the one that prompts the anti-2nd Amendment crowd to utter misconceptions, half truths, and fallacies of logic such as the ones used by you and Ben.