That's one of the great victim-blaming bits about Mormonism that really, really gets to me.
In their theology, we all lived in this Pre-Mortal existence, and we knew exactly what was going to happen to us here in this life. For example, someone born to abusive parents who beat them unmercifully and develop all sorts of problems as a result of the abuse, knew beforehand what they were going to endure, but they freely chose that life anyway. Because of course, what kind of moron would prefer loving parents without addiction/mental health issues, who are financially comfortable, etc?. No, no. Give me that crack addict who beats me with an extension cord for screaming too loud when I don't get a bottle and my diaper is wet. What you endure here is your Pre-Mortal choice.
I really can't see how anyone can't find this blatant victim-blaming mentality morally repugnant.