Thanks!
And... Ow.
I forced myself to get to the end of the first page, but after that... I
couldn't read any more couldn't stop myself from Tone Policing the rest of the thread.
ETA: Though I must admit I was stricken by Eowyn's assertion of privilege, at having a more correct analysis due to her multilingual/multicultural childhood experiences.
I guess on A+, some privilege is more equal than others. I, too, had a multilingual/multicultural childhood, but what it gave me was a broader, more flexible, more adaptable, more productive approach to linguistic/cultural idiosyncrasie. I guess I was
privileged by the experience, but Eowyn was
vicimized*.
I guess if this were A+, I'd need a trigger tag for UK members who think "victimised", and a full-paragraph disclosure in my sig, explaining that while I prefer the American spelling, I don't mean to assert Ugly American Privilege, and I fully respect anyone who prefers the UK spelling.
On second thought, I should probably just spell it "victimise", and avoid the whole problem of UAP in the first place. Plus, as a South African, Buckle probably uses the UK spelling anyway, so me adopting it would certainly soothe Eowyn's ruffled feathers.
Wait, am I allowed to suggest that another member might have certain preferences, based on their apparent cultural/ethnic background? Eowyn certainly is, but she seems to be part of the in-group. Maybe I should just shut up. That seems to suit A+ just fine.
Incidentally, what would happen if I registered, lurked for six months, and then started posting in line with the in-group's values? Would I be welcomed? Or would I be called out as some sort of bad-faith noob who has been lurking for six months before posting, clearly for nefarious purposes?