The line between giving someone a choice versus not giving him a choice is not as clear as everyone would like to think.
Let us go back to an ancient time in America. Specifically, to the days when I was a teenager, approximately 35 years ago.
In those ancient days, there was an archaic ritual known as "gym class", and all males were forced to endure it. Starting at the age of 12, a strange element was added to that archaic ritual. All the boys would remove all of their clothing and allow water to run over their bodies. They would do this in the company and in full view of all the other boys.
For those who grew up more recently, it may sound ridiculous, but I assure you we really did this.
Now, also in those days, there was another archaic ritual known as "circumcision", and it was done to darned near every boy in America, and it was not done for religious reasons. It was so commonplace, and done so young, that most of us were unaware that we were circumcised. In fact, there was one boy, and only one, in our gym class that was uncircumcised. I thought he had some sort of disease or malformity of his penis.
Did he have a choice whether or not to grow up different? Did he decide to be the odd one in the showers? Who made that choice? At 18, if he chose to become circumcised, would that eliminate all effects of the choice his parents made?
It's not so easy to take the "pro-choice" argument seriously. That kid didn't have a choice.
Fortunately, it didn't seem to do him, or us, any harm. We had it done, or not, and except for illustrating one element of sexual ignorance, it doesn't seem to have made much of a difference to anyone.
P.S. I am told on good authority that females underwent a similar ritual after gym class, but despite my best efforts, I was never allowed to confirm this by direct observation. My own attempts to visualize it were numerous, but probably not entirely accurate.