Part of the problem you're encountering, Nessie, is, in addition to your lack of familiarity with the basic literature on the Holocaust (it would save you a lot of mental gymnastics to study some of this before wading into these discussions), your refusal to learn from and see patterns in how deniers operate - how they use sources, their inability to use all the evidence, their approach to discussion and argument, their intentional distortions and game playing with information and material, and so on.
You've seen consistent and typical denier BS from Chester and his friends - yet you act as though the denier slate is a clean slate, a kind of tabula rasa.
To get a really good, thorough picture of how deniers "do history," you should read this work several times:
http://archive.org/details/BelzecSobiborTreblinka.HolocaustDenialAndOperationReinhard.ACritique
In the meantime, consider the following:
1) Keeping in mind how our friend Chester has time and again played games with references to quoted material - two recent examples are Gitta Sereny and Filip Mueller - here
http://www.internationalskeptics.com/forums/showthread.php?t=202147&page=212 you can read about a similar game of hide and seek, concerning The Black Book of Polish Jewry - start with post #8475 and continue for a few pages for a sorry, sorry saga.
2) Here is another typical denier stunt, to take a second example from something contributed to this forum, showing how deniers quote and use material,
http://www.internationalskeptics.com/forums/showthread.php?t=202147&page=207, starting with post #8252 and continuing for a bit. Remind you of anyone?
Reviewing how deniers operate, the games they play, and the agenda one sees at work, there is something less than zero chance that they are operating in the good faith you credit them with.