There is nothing so difficult to understand.
Let me try to describe the dissolution of polymers using some illustrative analogy:
Imagine a dense coil of many mutually entagled snakes lying on the bottom of some well – like in Indiana Jones movies

) Snakes here represent the entangled molecular chains of
linear polymers or so called thermoplastics (like polystyrene, PVC or polyvinylacetate etc).
Now add some water as a “solvent” to the well. Since snakes do not like water, they try to escape. They are furiously moving and twisting, but escape from the coil is not so easy. Anyway, after some time, the coil of snakes becomes to be less tight and it is bigger with some water in it – this roughly corresponds to the formation of
polymer gel. Eventually, each snake (polymer chain) succeeds to escape and we have a “mixture” of individual snakes freely swimming in the water pool – analogy of
polymer solution.
Now imagine the same coil of snakes, but here each snake is somehow firmly bound to some neighbor, let say with one “crosslink”. This corresponds to the
crosslinked polymers or thermostets (like epoxy or alkyd resin). When adding water, snakes again try to escape, the coil starts to be less dense (swollen with water), but there is no way for snakes to definitely escape the swollen coil , since they are mutually bound together. The most they can do is just to form network of snake bodies elongated to the maximum (filled with water as solvent).
When each snake is bound with other snakes with more than one “crosslink”, the initial “snake network” is denser. Therefore, the final "swollen snake network" is also denser and it occupies lower volume.
In some senses, this analogy is not really good, e.g. since here our snakes do not like water, whereas polymer chains/networks in contact with their good solvent in fact “like” this solvent, they "like" to be in contact with solvent molecules, since they are chemically similar (according to the well-known chemical rule
“similia similibus solvuntur”).
But this is not so important. This was simply my attempt to explain why polymer binders in both Laclede and Tnemec cannot be dissolved in anything and why they can only swell (as was proven both by Harrit and Millette at least for some red chips)

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