Draca
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The UK version doesn't strike me as too bad--it's a bit sexist used of a male, because it suggests that being called something associated with females is bad. The US version carries a real nastiness that it shares with the N-word when that word is used with hostility. Connotation's hard to give evidence for, but to me at least, with US users, it seems to carry a strong implication of subhumanity--as if the person were nothing but the body part in question.
Yes, I think you have this exactly right. It is dehumanizing.