PetiteMalleolus,
So what's your point? Virtually everything we say or type is "how we remember it". The only exceptions would be when we're reciting something from a script or transcribing or cutting or copying and pasting. Or are you saying that you use the phrase in a manner that suggests you're never really sure of anything ... as in "it's just how you remember it"? If so that's fine, but let me ask you, isn't there anything you're sure of? Or is everything you remember all just a fuzzy mush of uncertainty?
Ufology -- I thought that Paul (post #15302) and StrayCat (#15326) explained things very well in their replies to the post that you wrote to me, so I'll just try to add a personal thought here. I don't expect anyone to blindly accept the accuracy of this story, particularly given the (now-suppressed) extensive artistic liberties/humor-attempts (all having fallen miserably flat...) in some of my past posts, but it shouldn't matter, because there certainly are people who can do what I'll describe here. (And anyways, in case anyone really cares, there's no fiction here save for that the friend's name is changed).
My friend "K.D." has me do this thing where I give her a random 300-digit number to memorize and repeat-or-write back to me. We set a time limit at 30 minutes, because any longer than that makes it too easy for her. However long she takes to memorize it (be it 18 minutes, 16, 14, whatever), she'll repeat back to me the number forwards or backwards, although on occasion 2 digits may get reversed (she'll know that it's, say, "28"or "82", but won't be certain which one it is), and if I give her 5 more minutes ( = tons of time to double-check/triple-check everything), it's highly unlikely that she'll even have the 2-digit-reversal-thing happen -- I feel comfortable stating these things because I've tested her many times. She can also retain very long lists of numbers for long periods of time. Well, despite having what, I'd think, many would consider to be some outstanding memory skills, she'll never say, "I'm certain that I'm right". The number-memorizing things are, obviously, easy to design tests for to verify her accuracy, and, indeed, she may at times feel, say, "I'm 83% sure that I'm right, but, let's try to find out for sure", and after verification, "Yeah, I guess I was right" -- but when she's addressing past personal memories/events/experiences (there being, of course, no apparent ways to verify them), she always allows that she could be mistaken. She might say, regarding a certain memory, "I'm 87% sure that I'm right, but I can't be sure", and, regarding a different memory she might say, "I'm only 31% sure that I'm right", but she's well aware that in both cases her memories may be wrong, or even that the "31%" one might be right and the "87%" one may be wrong.
How certain am I that K.D.'s abilities are as described? I have no "certainty-number"; I've found that I've been easily able to consistently replicate the memorization tests, in the presence of others or not, and I'd guess that I'll be able to do it again (obviously this assumes that brain damage, death, etc... do not occur in anyone involved before/during the next test...) -- Again, though, these are verifiable situations. Of course, even in verifiable situations, all of my friends have seen the sharpest people that we know be certain of a memory and then discover they're mistaken. Even in this forum, many of the same skeptics who've been accused of being, perhaps, "above" others, exhibit the contrary in unhesitantly stating that they can't be certain that particular memories are accurate.
We have here a person who consistently demonstrates, under controlled conditions, high levels of memory ability, and yet she still recognizes the fallibility of human memory. I'm presently left with that indeed her view appears to be the enlightened one (but please, anyone, feel free to convince me otherwise -- I don't feel that I have any personal stake in it one way or the other).