Do you mean that the radioactivity is not an issue at all? I realize it's "depleted", but I'd be surprised if there aren't at least some negative effects from the radiation. Perhaps they are overwhelmed by the toxicity issues, but still...
To expand on what others have already said - natural uranium ore has 0.72% U-235, with the rest being U-238 (plus some trace amount of U-234). U-238 has a half-life of ~4.5 billion years, which means that it's barely radioactive at all. U-235 has a half-life of 700 million years. Which means that it's barely radioactive as well. Both are are alpha emitters, so the type of radiation isn't any more dangerous either. U-235 is useful because it's
fissile, not because it's radioactive. That means if you hit it with a neutron, it will break up and release energy along with more neutrons. But if you don't hit it with anything, it's actually pretty stable.
This is actually similar to plutonium, which most people think of as particularly dangerous. Pu-239 has a half-life of tens of thousands of years. That's far shorter than uranium, but is still long enough that you can happily sit around with a lump of it on your desk and not have any problems. That's actually exactly what happened at Los Alamos - test lumps were used as paper weights and doorstops. They knew there was no danger from it, and wanted to see what would happen to it in terms of oxidation and so on when left out in the environment.
So depleted uranium doesn't mean uranium that's had all the horrible dangerous stuff taken out, it means uranium that's had the useful, but not really any more dangerous, stuff taken out. That doesn't mean there can never be any danger from it. But even natural, undepleted uranium isn't really radioactive enough to cause problems from short term exposure, from the radiation at least.
So, from what I can follow, radioactivity isn't the problem, heavy metal toxicity is. That would result in the same symptoms as lead poisoning?
Not necessarily. Heavy metals tend to be toxic, but not all in exactly the same way. Lead poisoning tends to have different symptoms from mercury poisoning, for example. Uranium is actually less toxic than many other heavy metals. But "less toxic than arsenic" isn't necessarily a great selling point.
I have no idea how prevalent the process is, but there is a second way to get depleted uranium: From reprocessing spent fuel rods. That source would have the risk of being contaminated with fission byproductions.
Generally it's not particularly prevalent, precisely because of that last part. Cleaning up spent fuel so that it contains just uranium and not all the nasty stuff that makes it dangerous and radioactive in the first place just isn't that easy. After all, if it was easy nuclear waste wouldn't really be a problem. Since there's not really a shortage of DU, there's no need to play around with the nastier stuff in order to get more.