Ziggurat
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It's one thing. A big one.
I don't believe that they believe in their values. But that is not what bothers me.
I'm getting mixed messages here.
I've nothing to apologize for.
It's one thing. A big one.
I don't believe that they believe in their values. But that is not what bothers me.
I've nothing to apologize for.
I know what you mean, but you are completely ignoring hypocrisy as a "value". I strongly feel that politicians' sex lives should be left out of any political discussion. I don't like it when politicians, either left or right, bring these things up or intentionally keep them in the forefront. So yes, I'm disgusted when anyone does it, but being realistic, I know that journalists are going to dig dirt. That's what they do for a living. It doesn't mean though that the politician has to repeat it. But as disgusting as I find that practice, it is much more disgusting when done by someone who is simultaneously inveighing against others who are doing the same thing that they're doing. Do you see a difference in these actions? If you don't, then I'm really surprised at you.No, that is not what I mean at all.
We should be able to evaluate a person's values on their own. Do we agree with their values or not? If not, then consistency between their actions and values can't reconcile their values to us, and inconsistency isn't needed to disagree with their values. If so, then the mere failing to live up to those values, regardless of any advocacy of them, is the real problem.
Again, you seem to be leaving hypocrisy out of the question. I consider hypocrisy an important failing, one that makes them less likely to be a trusted public servent. Sure it's better to be "doing bad but working for good" than it is to be "doing bad and working for bad", but it still doesn't excuse the hypocrisy. Are their actions excusable? It depends, but I'm pretty lenient about weaknesses of the flesh. If they're doing those actions though, then they should stop preaching against them. That is a weakness of character, and is less forgivable (to me) in a person I expect to represent me.And we can evaluate a person's actions on their own as well. Do we think they acted correctly or not? If they acted incorrectly, would that condemn values they violated but which they shared with us? It shouldn't. Would their actions be excusable if their own values, in contrast to ours, permitted such actions? Again, we have no reason to accept that.
That is a complete red herring. Nobody is saying they don't have moral values. We're talking about people who condemn others for not living up to their moral values while at the same time not living up to their own moral values. If you believe sex outside of marriage is not a big deal, then you should say so, or at the very least, leave it out of your screeds. If you have integrity.So how is not successfully living up to a moral value worse than not having that value at all? I don't see how it is.
Do you honestly think that it makes it better to call it "dishonesty" rather than hypocrisy? Hypocrisy is a specific kind of dishonesty that is, in my mind, more pernicious than many other kinds, like giving misleading statistics.You speak of integrity, but how, exactly, does integrity enter the picture here? Do you mean that hypocrites are advocating values they don't actually believe in, and that's why they act hypocritically? Perhaps. But in that case, the problem is that they're dishonest, and possibly that they don't really hold a value one thinks they should hold. So it's still not the hypocrisy per se that's the important issue.
The problem with this obsession with hypocrisy, absent any evaluation of the morals themselves, is that it panders to the lowest denominator. By elevating hypocrisy above the values themselves, one essentially rewards not having values, because then one cannot be hypocritical. This is a corrosive attitude. Worse, it is frequently employed cynically, by people who never cared about the value in question but merely hope to gain leverage from that value anyways.
And it is unnecessary.
I should have said what bothers me the most. But the real worry are those who actively are engaged in harming others while they are being duplicitous. Besides, what I believe isn't a basis for condemnation. We can argue about abstinence only and gay rights but once you get outed as a hypocrite then the dynamic changes.I'm getting mixed messages here.
I've nothing to apologize for.I never suggested you did.
I so agree, so long as they are not sending their daughter on an abstinence only tour. Then they get it with both barrels.I can simply think of no reason to smear someone publicly for an "steamy interracial hookup" in 1987 or whatever year, or to attempt to draw negative conclusions of any sort about the person from such a thing, whether it is true or not.
Someone doing that, in my opinion would be a total jerk.
And after all the above discussion at the core you have the Saul Alinsky Principle "Pin your opponent, personalize the issue". Which whoever is doing here with Sarah Palin is doing in this really bizarre way, because the issue is allegedly a "steamy interracial hookup". Thus it isn't Palin that's the bigot or exhibiting racial prejudice, but those here, accusing her in this context (or using her alleged behavior for generalizing the greater issue of importance to them at the moment).
Somehow, now there is a contrived group of homophobes and racists in the RIGHT because a left wing crank alleges Palin had an affair with a black?
I can simply think of no reason to smear someone publicly for an "steamy interracial hookup" in 1987 or whatever year, or to attempt to draw negative conclusions of any sort about the person from such a thing, whether it is true or not.
Someone doing that, in my opinion would be a total jerk. That includes anyone making little self righteous arrogant charges of hypocrisy.
I know what you mean, but you are completely ignoring hypocrisy as a "value".
Do you see a difference in these actions? If you don't, then I'm really surprised at you.
Again, you seem to be leaving hypocrisy out of the question.
I consider hypocrisy an important failing, one that makes them less likely to be a trusted public servent.
That is a complete red herring. Nobody is saying they don't have moral values.
We're talking about people who condemn others for not living up to their moral values while at the same time not living up to their own moral values. If you believe sex outside of marriage is not a big deal, then you should say so, or at the very least, leave it out of your screeds. If you have integrity.
Do you honestly think that it makes it better to call it "dishonesty" rather than hypocrisy?
You are trying to paint those who object to hypocrisy as having no firm values, but only cynicism, and that is both dishonest and disgusting.
Teenage pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, the belief that homosexuality is a sin, etc..I never claimed that this problem of cynical usage of hypocrisy accusations was universal. But it does exist, and pointing it out is not dishonest. And if pointing out a genuine issue is disgusting, then you have a strange sense of what disgusts you.
I so agree, so long as they are not sending their daughter on an abstinence only tour. Then they get it with both barrels.![]()
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She apparently had a one night stand with future NBA player Glen Rice when he was in Alaska for a college basketball tournament. This was just a year before she eloped with Todd.
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So what? I can't stand Palin for the person she is NOW, I could care less for what she did in her early 20s, which wasn't illegal. This thread is just as weak as Perry's mdiocre college transcript thread.
Agreed. On the other hand I don't mind making a big deal about bestiality because sheep can't talk.I'd never break bad on somebody because they ********** around. I'd be a massive hypocrite if I did. Because I really can't even tell you how many people I had sex with in my youth.
...Who cares?
I can simply think of no reason to smear someone publicly for an "steamy interracial hookup" in 1987 or whatever year, or to attempt to draw negative conclusions of any sort about the person from such a thing, whether it is true or not.
Someone doing that, in my opinion would be a total jerk. That includes anyone making little self righteous arrogant charges of hypocrisy.
But to be fair you are neither attempting...
- to smear someone publicly for an "steamy interracial hookup"
- ...or to attempt to draw negative conclusions of any sort about the person from such a thing, whether it is true or not.
Well.
I'm glad you now have something exciting in your life.
But to be fair you are neither attempting...
- to smear someone publicly for an "steamy interracial hookup"
- ...or to attempt to draw negative conclusions of any sort about the person from such a thing, whether it is true or not.