I'm walking my own path quite well, thank you, but that doesn't have anything to do with it.
Why did you come here to discuss these things if your response to a legitimate question is "figure it out yourself?"
Paul:
I didn't come here to prove my position. I came here to elicit opinions on various cases for the purpose of providing a skeptical view for some of the writeups I do on my website. I've been engaging in the conversation and debate because it can be enjoyable when it's not all adversarial.
If you are sincere about really wanting to understand how others arrive at their conclusions, sometimes you have to try the same things they've done. After all, that is how scientists verify other people's claims ... by doing the same things to see if they get the same result. There is no shortcut I can post here to replace that.
So I've offered you a
starting point. You can probably find the book at your local used book store. It's about 600 pages thick, so you can see why I'm not going to start posting it here ( not to mention copyright ). I trust you've already read the classics by Ruppelt, Keyhoe, Edwards, Hynek, Vallee, Klass and Condon.
Also, ( if you haven't already ), take an astronomy course, read-up on meteorology and aviation and start looking up more often when you are outside. Get an idea of what kinds of cloud formations are at what altitudes and how aircraft look from various angles in the day and at night, and what stars, planets, satellites, the moon and metor showers look like. Don't just take it for granted and look at pictures on the internet ... get outside and
observe. Check out an air show, do some storm chasing, watch a meteor shower and a lunar eclipse. Last but not least
talk to people, and if they are kind enough to tell you their story, try to listen without getting all judgmental. These activities can all be quite enjoyable and educational.
Once you've done all the above and talked in-person with a few dozen people who have stories to tell, then that's your ufology 101. It may have still not changed your view regarding proof, but it should at least make you realize it's not all nonsense and that perhaps it's worth further consideration and investigation.
Now for all I know, maybe you've done all that ... most people haven't, even many UFO believers. What exactly makes them believe? I don't know, but you asked me
why I do, and I can't give you a better answer. If you want the easy fix, you're going to have to wait until the aliens come down and open up a mothership cruise agency, and I wouldn't hold my breath for that.