The problem is you guys characterize "support" too broadly and infer that it means the same kind of support a "card carrying" member of Hamas would have.
You basically take deviations from your conception of Hamas as automatically meaning the polar opposite of your position: you are die-hard opponents, so people like bikerdruid must be die-hard supporters.
So people who say things like: well they are the elected government, or that Israel should maybe consider negotiating a deal with Hamas - are construed as "supporters" of Hamas.
This is you key line, used by all three of you, throughout this thread.
"Why do you 'support' Hamas?"
This then let's you bring out the heavy artillery:
X "supports" Hamas, ergo, X supports everything Hamas has ever done, ergo, X loves it when innocent jews die and hates jews.
This is a perfect example of confirmation bias at work - enabled by simplified reductions of your opponent's views, and perhaps, some sort of underlying desire to be arguing against vile people who support murder.
That last bit is a bit of mind-reading I know, but given the eagerness with which such slander is employed by all three of you I have to assume there's something you enjoy about battling Evil, so you see Evil everywhere. Even in innocents like bikerdruid.
That's because Hamas are so extremist.
If I meet someone who says that they support Democrats or Republicans then I may have a broad idea of where they stand in general but, given the "broad church" and rather moderate nature of the parties, I would expect to find areas where they go "off-message".
On the other hand, if I meet someone who says they support Nazis, KKK, Hamas… then I tend to think that there is something about the extremist position that they like. After all, when you get down to it… there aren't many fascists supporting neo-nazi parties just because they'd like the trains to run on time.
People who want to support Palestinians without supporting the murder of innocents should just say that, instead of saying that they support Hamas.
(If you were to want to communicate that "I support Germany regaining ethincally German land and not paying any more Versailles reperations but I do not support war and genocide"… then you shouldn't say "I support Nazis", or then justify it with "they won a plurality of the vote - so respect them!". Because people will get the wrong idea about you.)