Also it is necessary to develop a realistic concept or attitude of your own position in the universe.
This is where science comes in. We now have a far more realistic idea of our position in the universe than we ever did.
This is why I keep going on about unknowns and mysteries. Awareness of these enables one to find a realistic perspective on existence.
We are aware of unknowns and mysteries - they're what keeps scientists intrigued and science progressing. You've been 'going on' about fantasies.
I know this sounds daft to a scientist, but it is a tried and tested technique. Not tested in scientific terms, rather through personal testimony.
What is this 'tried and tested' technique - to 'keep going on about unknowns and mysteries' ? And what has this tried and tested technique achieved? where are the results, the data, the evidence for it's efficacy? Has it given you a useful, explanatory, predictive,
working model of the universe and our place in it? A toolkit that allows us to mould the structure of organic and inorganic matter, rewrite our own genetic code, talk across the world, walk on the moon...? Or was that science?
The really interesting unknowns and mysteries are out there in the real, material world, where we can use the twin tools of science and patience to find, examine, describe, model, and finally explain them.
Hamlet says it best:
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There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy."