Thing is that progress is for the most part driven by city enviroments. Even the 19th Model Farms came from those who spent significant amounts of time in city enviroments. The Green Revolution was again very much taking the science and progress of cities and taking to more rural areas.
I'd also argue that in general, except for the first wave of pioneers who enjoyed a primitive isolated life, the second wave of permanent settlers on most of the U.S. frontier
wanted the services that communities could provide--better roads, better bridges, better law enforcement, better markets, better communication. Otherwise there wouldn't have been the push to build roads, canals and railroads to connect the interior of the country.
For every market hunter who grumbled that the game was leaving and he needed to move further west, there was a farmer right behind him hoping the railroad would come nearby and raise the price of his crops on his newly-cleared land.
Nineteenth-century American expansion I can speak of with some confidence, but here's an idea that I'm just tossing out without any evidence, to see if it makes any sense:
I wonder if the convention of a property tax goes way back to the old English society where the land-
owners were (in theory at least) the wealthy members of the community, and the land-
renters were the poor peasants that the owners had some moral obligation to be charitable toward. So there was an underlying assumption that if you owned land, you were making a profit from it and were willing and able to invest something to improve the community as a whole, while the poor tenants shouldn't be expected to do more than just support themselves, laboring for the land owners.
Today that makes less sense, since houses aren't used for making money the way farmland was, so someone with a bigger house isn't necessarily making more profit because of it, unlike someone with a bigger farm.