I thank you for your post.
If I step on a bug with my boot I'm trying to crush it so it will become something else, a splat on the floor. If something prevents me from crushing it, I can say that something is holding it together. I think the distinction you made is meaningless i.e. unnecessary.
To simplify communications I'm going to christen this theory which is unknown to me as "Global EMF Repulsion Theory or "GEMFR."
Physicists commonly and simply explain the reason why Jupiter, for example, doesn't collapse is it doesn't have enough mass. GEMFR implies that even if you add more matter to the planet you would also get more EMF repulsion. The two would balance out & Jupiter could never collapse. There shouldn't be any stars, black holes etc.
Even if GEMFR is a real theory, I think it suffers from the aforementioned flaw and is unnecessary to explain the physics. Pure Agent you can debate my points if you like but I really need to view several references by the physics community on GEMFR. I've never even seen it in the literature nor heard it mentioned in any lecture. There are lots of fringe ideas in physics but I need to know that GEMFR or whatever it's called is accepted by the main stream and the reasons why it doesn't suffer from any flaws.
I assume you learned of GEMFR from somewhere, so please share the sources. I don't find the Roche limit reference that Pixy Misa referred to, or most anything she has said on this subject, convincing. I look forward to studying the GEMFR references.