Your utopian vision of brotherly love and compassion and rosy cheeked common folk enjoying a show at the cinema is appealing, but we both know the world doesn't work that way.
Er, it does here. I was describing
actual reality, as she is right where I'm sitting.
Your suggested solution to healthcare costs was for people on limited incomes to forego all the little pleasures of life to prioritise saving for a possible, hypothetical healthcare requirement in the future. I was pointing out that this would lead to a pretty miserable existence, even when healthy. No money to spend on any little luxuries, just sit and look at the growing savings pot you daren't touch because you don't know when you might break a leg or go down with systemic lupus. Some American Dream!
It's no utopian vision to point out that where I live, this isn't a consideration at all. Nobody needs to worry where the funding for any future healthcare needs is going to come from, because it's sorted. And nobody appears to bear any ill will towards the people who find themselves in the position of needing that healthcare.
And I see no disadvantage whatsoever in the fact that this system doesn't include your valued "personal responsibility".
I also developed this argument further, to examine the possible economic consequences of people actually doing what you want them to do. Everything beyond the basic necessities of food and shelter becomes a luxury item, only to be purchased by those who already have sufficient savings to cover any possible future healthcare need for themselves and their dependants. How big a market is that going to be? Damn small.
Instead of people getting out there and spending, "spending our way out of the recession" as some economists put it, everyone is salting away every penny they possibly can. Almost nobody is buying consumer goods, entertainment, maybe even higher quality food. Are they even maintaining their homes? What is more important, fixing the roof or having the money to pay for the heart bypass I might need in 20 years time?
It would strangle large sectors of the economy. It would be catastrophic.
These were the points I was making, and I think I made them fairly plainly. That you could only respond by accusing me of being "emotional" is somewhat telling, I think.