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Unemployment

Like I said, work for someone else. I recommend people start out working for others anyway to learn the ropes and save up money for their own shop.

You know what? I'd really like to. I'd REALLY REALLY LIKE TO. A pity for me that one big unexpected bill can wipe my saving out completely, isn't it? I suppose my husband's failure to pay promised alimony is completely my own fault too.
 
You know what? I'd really like to. I'd REALLY REALLY LIKE TO. A pity for me that one big unexpected bill can wipe my saving out completely, isn't it? I suppose my husband's failure to pay promised alimony is completely my own fault too.

If you are having financial problems I highly suggest checking out Dave Ramsey's stuff.

As for making any specific comments about your situation I simply don't have enough information. Do you really want to talk about in detail where you went wrong in ending up in your current situation? Or are you saying that you did everything right and just had bad luck?
 
I'm sure I went wrong in lots of places. I got married in college. I'm absolutely **** at selling anything, especially myself. I work nights, so I'm not around during the day when most employers are awake. I went to university for a year and paid graduate rates for undergraduate classes. I let everyone walk all over me. Where to start?
 
I'm sure I went wrong in lots of places. I got married in college. I'm absolutely **** at selling anything, especially myself. I work nights, so I'm not around during the day when most employers are awake. I went to university for a year and paid graduate rates for undergraduate classes. I let everyone walk all over me. Where to start?

Ok so then what was the original point? It sounds like you are on the road to taking control of your life but you're having a difficult time at the moment. Make plans, work hard towards them and I guarantee you'll get to a good place.
 
I don't see how my situation can change anytime soon, the bills my paychecks are going to are all longterm ones (car loan, student loans).
 
Yeah, it's not the top destination for immigrants. There's lots of positives to being here. Low cost of living, no traffic jams, lots of space. On the negative side, the roads are crap and it gets colder than many can stand.


It's funny to speak of people taking responsibility for their finances. I think of some of those oilfield guys that make a hundred grand a year but can't buy groceries when road bans come on because they spend as much as they make (or more). I was like that for a while, but I learned better quickly, I'll tell you that.
 
Honestly, yes. Where I am it's impossible to find anyone to do anything. Every business is hiring. There just are not enough workers. We've had two restaurants close up shop because they could not find wait staff, cooks, or cleaning people. The only reason the fast food places are still open is because they brought over a bunch of Filipino immigrants. There is absolutely no reason for anyone here to be unemployed if they are able-bodied. It's bonkers. It will be probably a year before I can get someone to do my eavestroughs. It's at least a month's wait for a plumber or electrician to come out for a minor issue.

We need you Americans to come here. I seriously urge folks to consider relocation. I am not kidding. If you are a mechanic, let me know, I can get you a job today.
All right, I'll be there in a flash! (looks up Estevan on Google Maps)

Uh, I'll get back to you... :boxedin:
 
I get what you're saying here. The average person is too dumb to take of themselves. Is that it?
No. People have varying skill levels and ability to learn. The "average" person is probably low-middle to middle class and is doing a decent job managing their finances and their life. But they are not interested in starting and running their own business.

Fine, then don't start a business. Work for someone and actually live below your means and save money. This way if a depression hits you'll at least have a buffer to fall back on.
That's what I did. And when I lost my job right after the dot-com bust and was working for near minimum wage for a couple of years, I managed. I'm now back at a professional level job, making less perhaps that I should but more than enough to live comfortably and save and invest the remainder. The lack of stress is nice.

As for living below your means, good advice for most people. But when you're making only $10/hr, it's really difficult to live below that. And in a recession, there are an uncomfortably large number of $10/hr jobs and not too many $25/hr jobs.

Of course some people will get caught without this because they are just starting out. Also unemployment insurance would probably cover some gap as well.

That's well and good but if you take that attitude about things that are important (look food and shelter) then you will have some serious problems. When does a persons responsibility to take care of themselves end? Also should people who can't manage their own lives be given a vote? To me this is basic stuff.
I'm not sure how to answer the question "When does a person's responsibility to take care of themselves end?" Most people in North America are taking care of themselves, but with wildly varying degrees of success. Also, I don't see "running your own company" as an essential life skill as you implied earlier in this thread.

Nope, they don't know to know all of that. They do need to know how to balance a checkbook. They especially need a good understand of what debt is, how to use it, how much it costs and when it's bad (hint: almost always when it's consumer debt).
I know that. An awful lot of people don't, and it seems like a lot of North American society is heavily weighted against teaching people that. Credit is often all to easy to come by, while the knowledge and information needed to manage that credit isn't. And there's also the lament that life is a cruel teacher: it gives you the test first, followed by the lesson.

Like I said, work for someone else. I recommend people start out working for others anyway to learn the ropes and save up money for their own shop. If they don't want to start their own shop they can always invest that money.
Does that also include the single mom retail clerk making $10.00/hr and all her income goes to supporting herself and that kid? It's going to take a very long time to save up money when you don't have any at the end of every month.

BTW Investing is another thing that the average joe should pay more attention to.
I agree that a lot of people don't seem to understand that paying yourself first (saving and tax deferral) is a good idea.

Most people seem to have a hard time understanding what a 401k is.
Especially people who don't live in the United States :p Yes, I understand you used a local term; I expect most countries have tax deferral plans for saving up for retirement.

I'd also like to point out that even if you don't want to go into business for yourself that at least it's an option we have here. In some countries starting a business is actually quite difficult due to corruption.
I agree with your point about it being easy in many countries to start your own business and it being more difficult in others.

I truly believe that anyone has a decent chance of becoming wealthy over their lifetime if they follow some simple principals.
Like don't go into a marriage only to see it break up in seven years, leaving you with either a kid or child support payments? Don't take a job at a company that is going to close its plant ten years down the road? Don't buy a house just before your company decides to lay you off in a downsizing move?

Face it, stuff happens. Companies big and small fail all the time. I don't know how much of that is bad management and how much of that is bad times.

Anyway I do believe that people are responsible for their own financial house. If you are going year after year constantly having money problems then you are probably doing something wrong and not *just* having bad luck. Of course there will be outliers who hit a bad run and just can't get a break but this isn't the normal case. Most people make their own beds by making bad or immature choices.
I encourage you to read Slingblade's, Remie V's or Roadtoad's threads. These appear to be smart people who just can't seem to find decent employment. Roadtoad, for example, has driven for a bunch of companies over the last three years. He quit quite a few because the owners were asses who treated their drivers like crap and didn't respect the law. He really wants to start his own hauling company, but a string of bad times over the last five years has wiped out his financial position.
 
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I don't see how my situation can change anytime soon, the bills my paychecks are going to are all longterm ones (car loan, student loans).

Take a look at what Dave Ramsey has to say, he specialized in these types of situations. More than likely he would tell you to sell your car and buy a total beater (it does depend on the exact situation though).

Student loans can potentially be put on deferment if you qualify.

Do both of those things and then find a way to get more income, possibly a second job. Pay off debt, live cheap, save money. 5 years from now you'll be laughing.
 
No. People have varying skill levels and ability to learn. The "average" person is probably low-middle to middle class and is doing a decent job managing their finances and their life. But they are not interested in starting and running their own business.

Look I phrased it in an extreme way but this is basically what you're saying. The quite a few people can barely take care of themselves.

That's what I did. And when I lost my job right after the dot-com bust and was working for near minimum wage for a couple of years, I managed. I'm now back at a professional level job, making less perhaps that I should but more than enough to live comfortably and save and invest the remainder. The lack of stress is nice.

See, you were conservative and survived ok. Nobody said life is easy. I've certainly had some hardcore downtimes and things can change quickly with a run of bad luck.

As for living below your means, good advice for most people. But when you're making only $10/hr, it's really difficult to live below that. And in a recession, there are an uncomfortably large number of $10/hr jobs and not too many $25/hr jobs.

I've lived on that kind of money before. If you have any dependents it's going to be insane. More than likely you can't afford to live in your own place on that kind of money and have to split or live with relatives. However, if you are getting paid $10 an hour you are not really working a skilled job. So if I was in that bracket I would be spending all of my time learning a useful skill and networking into that field. Everyone has to start somewhere.

I'm not sure how to answer the question "When does a person's responsibility to take care of themselves end?" Most people in North America are taking care of themselves, but with wildly varying degrees of success. Also, I don't see "running your own company" as an essential life skill as you implied earlier in this thread.

Everyone is responsible for themselves. Parents are responsible for their children. Society should be setup to promote the greater good which to me includes not letting people starve in the streets.

Running your own company isn't an essential life skill. It's just IMHO the easiest way to build wealth. If people are having financial problems why not bring out the bazooka instead of a .22?

I know that. An awful lot of people don't, and it seems like a lot of North American society is heavily weighted against teaching people that. Credit is often all to easy to come by, while the knowledge and information needed to manage that credit isn't. And there's also the lament that life is a cruel teacher: it gives you the test first, followed by the lesson.

Credit card companies prey on people IMHO. Bogus fees and associated other bs. Now I do use cards both for business and personal but I consider them dangerous so I don't keep a revolving balance. If you don't have the disicipline to do that cut the damn thing up.

I made some really decent money when I was young (like 21). I pretty much pissed it away and learned some really good lessons in doing that.

Does that also include the single mom retail clerk making $10.00/hr and all her income goes to supporting herself and that kid? It's going to take a very long time to save up money when you don't have any at the end of every month.

She may have to find a way to cut expenses or increase her income. Someone with a dependent and a $10 an hour job has a problem. To me that's not a sustainable situation and one that a person should be planning to solve asap. Again this is the same type of advice Dave Ramsey would give out. He's very conservative in his recommendations to make sure that people don't get burned when Mr Murphy shows up.

So yes, I do think a person in that situation can fix their situation and get to the point of being able to put away some money. Again they need to seek out counseling if they don't have the necessary skills.

I agree that a lot of people don't seem to understand that paying yourself first (saving and tax deferral) is a good idea.

And people at many income levels use the same excuse (that they don't have any extra money to save). That's bull unless you are, as previously stated, the prototypical single mother. Everyone should be saving into retirement accounts once you've paid off your debts. And don't have debts (this includes car loans).

Especially people who don't live in the United States :p Yes, I understand you used a local term; I expect most countries have tax deferral plans for saving up for retirement.

You get the idea. I think in Canada they call them RRSP's. You would be shocked at how many of our employees don't contribute to their 401k. It was bad enough that I decided to make our plan a safe harbor plan and we automatically kick in 3% above and beyond salary for everyone so people have *something*.

Like don't go into a marriage only to see it break up in seven years, leaving you with either a kid or child support payments?

Honestly my recommendation would be to not get married before you've established your career.

Don't take a job at a company that is going to close its plant ten years down the road?

I've always been skittish about working for others, especially big companies. So you know my solution. Honestly I wouldn't ever take that kind of job.

Don't buy a house just before your company decides to lay you off in a downsizing move?

At least 20% down on a 15 year mortgage that is no more than 1/4 of your take home pay. 6 months of living expenses in an emergency fund. Now, go ahead and lay me off because I'm not stretched to the limit already.

Face it, stuff happens. Companies big and small fail all the time. I don't know how much of that is bad management and how much of that is bad times.

Which is why it's insane that so many people live paycheck to paycheck.

I encourage you to read Slingblade's, Remie V's or Roadtoad's threads. Th
ese appear to be smart people who just can't seem to find decent employment. Roadtoad, for example, has driven for a bunch of companies over the last three years. He quit quite a few because the owners were asses who treated their drivers like crap and didn't respect the law. He really wants to start his own hauling company, but a string of bad times over the last five years has wiped out his financial position.

I would rather avoid butting heads with more people and these are anecdotes anyway. Let me be clear and state that all of this is just conjecture and opinion and I don't have any peer reviewed studies on this stuff. This is watercooler stuff.
 
Look I phrased it in an extreme way but this is basically what you're saying. The quite a few people can barely take care of themselves.



See, you were conservative and survived ok. Nobody said life is easy. I've certainly had some hardcore downtimes and things can change quickly with a run of bad luck.
In the downturn of 1991, I worked stocking shelves at "Toys R Us", at minimum wage, during the Christmas rush. We were all released 2 days after Christmas. Nobody is going to hire a BSME and PE at minimum wage-they won't stay, and they won't be happy.
I've lived on that kind of money before. If you have any dependents it's going to be insane. More than likely you can't afford to live in your own place on that kind of money and have to split or live with relatives. However, if you are getting paid $10 an hour you are not really working a skilled job. So if I was in that bracket I would be spending all of my time learning a useful skill and networking into that field. Everyone has to start somewhere.
I can repair a car, operate a number of machines, do rough and fine carpentry, design and analyze structures, components, and mechanisms (and own the software to do it), do spreadsheets in EXCEL, put together reports and other publications in MSWord (I edited a bi-monthly magazine for 4 years!). I have drilled holes in West Texas to 18000 feet.
I have a BSME, and am a Registered Professional Engineer. What skills would you recommend that I acquire?
Everyone is responsible for themselves. Parents are responsible for their children. Society should be setup to promote the greater good which to me includes not letting people starve in the streets.

Running your own company isn't an essential life skill. It's just IMHO the easiest way to build wealth. If people are having financial problems why not bring out the bazooka instead of a .22?



Credit card companies prey on people IMHO. Bogus fees and associated other bs. Now I do use cards both for business and personal but I consider them dangerous so I don't keep a revolving balance. If you don't have the disicipline to do that cut the damn thing up.

I made some really decent money when I was young (like 21). I pretty much pissed it away and learned some really good lessons in doing that.



She may have to find a way to cut expenses or increase her income. Someone with a dependent and a $10 an hour job has a problem. To me that's not a sustainable situation and one that a person should be planning to solve asap. Again this is the same type of advice Dave Ramsey would give out. He's very conservative in his recommendations to make sure that people don't get burned when Mr Murphy shows up.

So yes, I do think a person in that situation can fix their situation and get to the point of being able to put away some money. Again they need to seek out counseling if they don't have the necessary skills.



And people at many income levels use the same excuse (that they don't have any extra money to save). That's bull unless you are, as previously stated, the prototypical single mother. Everyone should be saving into retirement accounts once you've paid off your debts. And don't have debts (this includes car loans).



You get the idea. I think in Canada they call them RRSP's. You would be shocked at how many of our employees don't contribute to their 401k. It was bad enough that I decided to make our plan a safe harbor plan and we automatically kick in 3% above and beyond salary for everyone so people have *something*.



Honestly my recommendation would be to not get married before you've established your career.



I've always been skittish about working for others, especially big companies. So you know my solution. Honestly I wouldn't ever take that kind of job.



At least 20% down on a 15 year mortgage that is no more than 1/4 of your take home pay. 6 months of living expenses in an emergency fund. Now, go ahead and lay me off because I'm not stretched to the limit already.
Except right now, it takes at least 12 months to find a new job. there goes your 6 months of emergency fund
Which is why it's insane that so many people live paycheck to paycheck.



I would rather avoid butting heads with more people and these are anecdotes anyway. Let me be clear and state that all of this is just conjecture and opinion and I don't have any peer reviewed studies on this stuff. This is watercooler stuff.
To beat an old saw into submission-Network! That is how I got the current contract I have. The advantage of a 1099 job is that everything you do with regard to the job is deductible-and the tax breaks are ALL that is keeping me afloat.
 
In the downturn of 1991, I worked stocking shelves at "Toys R Us", at minimum wage, during the Christmas rush. We were all released 2 days after Christmas. Nobody is going to hire a BSME and PE at minimum wage-they won't stay, and they won't be happy.I can repair a car, operate a number of machines, do rough and fine carpentry, design and analyze structures, components, and mechanisms (and own the software to do it), do spreadsheets in EXCEL, put together reports and other publications in MSWord (I edited a bi-monthly magazine for 4 years!). I have drilled holes in West Texas to 18000 feet.
I have a BSME, and am a Registered Professional Engineer. What skills would you recommend that I acquire?

I can't recommend a particular field because I don't know what would be the best fit for you. I'm always a fan of working for yourself. Also if you live in a truly depressed area MOVE!

Except right now, it takes at least 12 months to find a new job. there goes your 6 months of emergency fund

And that's when you start selling stuff. Also since you don't carry a large debt load except a conservative mortgage you can always downside eventually if things are that bad.

To beat an old saw into submission-Network! That is how I got the current contract I have. The advantage of a 1099 job is that everything you do with regard to the job is deductible-and the tax breaks are ALL that is keeping me afloat.

Networking is hugely important.
 
I just had a chance to listen to a CEO use his bully pulpit to tell his employees how darn hard he worked for his 7 figure salary.

No comment on Christmas Bonuses for his employees though. The employees must have been lazy over the past year. (Yes, that last sentence was sarcasm.)
 
I just had a chance to listen to a CEO use his bully pulpit to tell his employees how darn hard he worked for his 7 figure salary.

No comment on Christmas Bonuses for his employees though. The employees must have been lazy over the past year. (Yes, that last sentence was sarcasm.)

Everybody at my company already got bonuses... plus everone gets the week after christmas off gratis.
 
...I like the idea of public works programs to put people to work but is that really practical today? How much actual manual labor goes into building new roadways and other types of infrastructure today? We use powerful machines that have eliminated much of the grunt work. Sure muscle power is still important for a lot of construction but not to the level of employing massive amounts of workers for works projects.
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1930s: ten guys to dig the ditch

now: one person to drive the backhoe, 3 people to direct traffic around the construction site, 3 people to stand around talking (not knocking it, I just don't know what they are doing but they are always there), and hundreds of people to do engineering studies, environmental impact reports, write safety procedures, handle administrative details (payroll, insurance, etc). You get the idea. Not all of it IS manual labor these days.
 
1930s: ten guys to dig the ditch

now: one person to drive the backhoe, 3 people to direct traffic around the construction site, 3 people to stand around talking (not knocking it, I just don't know what they are doing but they are always there), and hundreds of people to do engineering studies, environmental impact reports, write safety procedures, handle administrative details (payroll, insurance, etc). You get the idea. Not all of it IS manual labor these days.

LOL.
 
Anyone who is able bodied and able minded that wants to work can find a way to make some money.

That's myth #1.

It's always been that way and it will always be that way.

Myth #2

At least in america anyone can start a business for example, it's not like you have to bribe someone to get a license like in some countries.

What percentages of businesses fail? I think the majority of new business ventures end in failure.
 

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