I think you too need to read what Bostrom actually wrote again a few more times until you understand it.
He's arguing that either most civilisations never get to be truly advanced or those that do don't run many ancestor simulations (possibly because ancestor simulations are impossible) or that it is likely we are simulated. He isn't advocating any one of those three options in particular.
The argument doesn't rely on any of the unwarranted assumptions you list.
Nonsense. Let's take his "arguments" in order.
1. Most civilizations never get to be "truly" advanced.
Well, there's a bold proposition. Obviously, all of the civilizations of which we have knowledge fall into this category. I'd say we can stop right here. But does he? He does not.
2. Those civilizations that do get to be "truly" advanced don't run such simulations.
Argument 2 assumes argument 1 is false. It therefore assumes that there may be some civilizations which are "truly" advanced. We have no evidence that such civilizations exist, so argument 2 relies on the UNWARRANTED ASSUMPTION that such civilizations may exist.
This is no different in principle than the unwarranted assumption that deities inhabit the heights of Mount Olympus. Either they do or they don't. If they do, maybe they don't interfere in the lives of mortals. In other words, a fitting premise for speculative fiction, but hardly worthy of serious consideration.
3. It is likely that we are simulated.
Depends on the unwarranted assumption that both argument 1 and argument 2 are false.
Option 3 is only plausible in the trivial case that the hardware for the simulation is all the matter in the universe, and the simulation is powered by all the energy in the universe. In that case, either there is a "creator" which designed the simulation and started it running, or there isn't. Again, a valid starting point for theological fantasy (or, taking just the world as the simulation, "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy"), but to me it seems silly to spend much time seriously contemplating such possibilities.
Maybe mankind one day invents time machines, and we are presently surrounded by undetectable travelers from the future who either do or do not shape the course of our lives. Maybe angels are real, and prayer convinces them to alter natural laws to favor outcomes we desire. Maybe there is an alternative universe in which we all snort cheese through prehensile tails. Maybe not. I'm not arguing one way or the other.
His "three arguments" are only interesting if there is a possibility that the third option is true. Civilizations don't become that advanced? Boring. Civilizations become that advanced, but they have better things to do? Boring, and completely speculative, since we have no evidence that civilizations become that advanced. We're simulated? Interesting, as the premise for fantasy and fiction. It isn't, in my opinion, a hypothesis that deserves serious consideration.