Well Non Skeptic, it seems that you are seeking an explanation for what you perceived to be a spiritual event?
You aren’t going to find what you are looking for in the place of consciousness. Or attempting to re arrange consciousness to fit the experience. Doesn't work that way. I don't care if its new age consciousness or science oriented consciousness. Both are belief systems that oppose each other. Spiritual work is worked in the unconsciousness, the things that aren't and can't be seen. The spirit won't come into consciousness, it doesn't believe in it. Or rather it knows how undependable it is.
Besides everyone has an option on what consciousness is. That makes it rather undependable and is just up to whoever has the most popular belief system at the time.
Consciousness, as the stage magicians have proved is a very highly undependable place. They can make you see things that aren't there. Hell we can make ourselves see things that aren't there.
I am agreeable that you had a spiritual event. I am not agreeable that you are attempting to alter consciousness to fit the experience. Some one working with spirit would not even attempt to dabble in consciousness or to say anything to a stage magician but "Yep, our 3d perception is highly undependable if you just made me see a tiger walk out of my cupboard."
So seeking your answers in consciousness is out. You experienced something that other people can't see. We can't expect them to believe it for that reason. That doesn't make them wrong, it doesn't' make you right either. You are not wrong exactly you are attempting to validate it in the wrong paradigm. You can validate it just not in consciousness.
Good luck. You probably need someone who knows how to work out out of consciousness with you. Psychics who haven't stepped into where they dont' belong, work in the psyche , they are more interested in what the psyche is doing, what the mind is projecting than what dead aunt Edna is doing. One presumes this is why the are called psychics?
If you find a good psychic to work with they will not impose beliefs on you but actually encourage you to suspend all belief systems including science, religion, new age bs, homeopathy, modern medicine, the belief in ghosts, talking dead people, paranormal etcetcetc and other things that people clutter the consciousness up with till they don't know if they are coming or going. A good psychic will probably make you watch several stage shows to see how easily our perceptions are mis directed. They will not give you any books to read unless the book is intended to slaughter your ego (there's a few books out there that do that , few people read them for that reason Having your ego slaughtered hurts and is depressing but neccessary if you want to do spiritual type work) New age books mostly tend to just give the ego more ^&%$ to play with to keep you in consciousness.
But the ego has to be gotten out of the way before you find how to do or even understand spiritual work. Beliefs are what the ego uses to keep us slammed down into consciousness when we really need to be working out of it.
If you are not willing to suspend beliefs in everything and be very skeptical of what you see and hear for a long while, then you probably won't get far. But good luck anyway.