I'm curious as to where (in general terms) thread participants have been to AA meetings because there seems to be a vast difference between my experience and some of the experiences described.
I suppose it's no secret from my posts elsewhere on the forum that I live in Hawaii, so I'll just come right out and say it's where I've been to the vast majority of my 12-step meetings (mostly AA, some NA). I am quite aware that there are a handful of "bible thumper
*" meetings out there but those are the exception in my experience.
Part of this is certainly the choice of meetings I go to - so called "young persons" meetings, which are fairly culturally diverse, mostly religiously neutral (ie, explicitly agnostic, non church attending or vaguely nondenominational Christian-ish)
Also, the only place I've ever run into a cold shoulder as far as different substances, is local NA. I've found NA here to be a bit standoffish with self-identified alcoholics (as opposed to addicts), with a superior (or is it inferior?) attitude of "everyone drinks, now crack/speed/meth is a _real_ addiction")
* Entertainingly for me in the context of this thread, there's one meeting in particular that I've heard described as being "not real AA" because it's "too religious!"