Belz...
Fiend God
You'd better ring and let them know, quick!
They've been waiting on your advice.![]()
Solid argument, or thinly veiled insult ?
You'd better ring and let them know, quick!
They've been waiting on your advice.![]()
Still waiting for where this occured in this thread. Seems you might have been lying?
You are half right here.
Alcoholism is not a choice, drinking is. One will rarely know of they are going to be an alcoholic until it is too late.
Hobbies become obsessive, not addictive - the word addictive is being misused here. Hobbies are a mental obsession only. Addiction is the physical dependance coupled with the mental obsession.
The physical dependance is the what moves it from (say) a mental disorder to a disease.
I hope that helps clear things up.
.2 Dependence syndrome
A cluster of behavioural, cognitive, and physiological phenomena that develop after repeated substance use and that typically include a strong desire to take the drug, difficulties in controlling its use, persisting in its use despite harmful consequences, a higher priority given to drug use than to other activities and obligations, increased tolerance, and sometimes a physical withdrawal state.
The dependence syndrome may be present for a specific psychoactive substance (e.g. tobacco, alcohol, or diazepam), for a class of substances (e.g. opioid drugs), or for a wider range of pharmacologically different psychoactive substances.
.. big snip..
removal of BS
GB
As I've mentioned multiple times, I have 21 years in AA and continue to attend regularly (my reasons are elsewhere in this thread) - people really need solid info on what AA is (and isn't), and so I speak out both inside and outside AA (the feedback from inside AA is just brutal - no other word to describe it - for the most part, as you might imagine happens when anyone starts questioning someone's religion).
http://www.orange-papers.org/orange-effectiveness.html
Did/does AA work for you?
Did you embrace a higher power?
Unlike yourself, I do respond honestly to questions - and have all throughout this thread.Why won't you respond to these questions.
Do you not disagree with the OP that AA does not have to be religious for it to work?
AAAlfie:
You are No #2 on my ignore list.
Lots of ad homs in there as usual.
It is obvious you don't care for discussion and education of any sort.
You refuse to respond to any questions at all and couple it with a lot of 'I know better than the experts" claims.
Perhaps you and your infinite wisdom should be my higher power.
If you can respond to my challenge of "liar" (which you are and know it) with some data and/or evidence, I will be happy to re-engage.
Until then, you are wasting our collective time.
Lots of ad homs in there as usual.
It is obvious you don't care for discussion and education of any sort.
You refuse to respond to any questions at all and couple it with a lot of 'I know better than the experts" claims.
Perhaps you and your infinite wisdom should be my higher power.
If you can respond to my challenge of "liar" (which you are and know it) with some data and/or evidence, I will be happy to re-engage.
Until then, you are wasting our collective time.
You are No #2 on my ignore list.
Embracing AA's core doctrine - that being Bill's claim that except in very rare, unheard of cases, it is impossible to get and maintain sobriety unless one develops a concious contact with a 'higher power' - no, that did not work for me. SOS's 'play the movie to the end' and my own will , coupled with the fact I was sick and tired of being sick and tired, as well as socializing/relearning how to be part of a social group - these are what worked for me - and have continued to work for the last 21 sober years.
No, I do not. Nor have I ever done so. The reason? (as I am sure you are going to ask next) - there is no evidence a 'higher power' as defined by Bill's writings exists. There is also no evidence a soul apart from a physical brain exists. Additionally, there is no evidence a 'spirit' world exists. No evidence ever, not when Bill was writing the big book, not in the last 2000 years - not ever.
No evidence = No Belief a 'higher power' exists.
Do you believe in things that don't have any evidence they exist? I don't.
Of course there are things that are more powerful than I, ranging from the muscular bodybuilders to a raging spacecraft - but all these types of 'higher powers' have evidence (repeatable, transferable, etc) for their existence, and these types of things are clearly not what bill was thinking of when he grudgingly wrote 'power greater than yourselves' - he was referring to the judeochristian god specifically.
Note: I suggest everyone interested in what AA doctrine really says about 'higher powers' read Chapter 4, as in it Bill quite clearly states that using the group as a higher power is only meant as a small start - a first step - to developing a relationship with god, and is not meant as a final choice.
Unlike yourself, I do respond honestly to questions - and have all throughout this thread.
No, I do not - the data I've posted and referred to makes clear that AA is religious (specifically designed for cult conversion to a bastardized version of xianity) - if something works, and it isn't religious (such as a SOS or SMART self help group) - or using the group as a higher power permanently - then it's fine and dandy, but it's not AA.
Thanks for that.
I find it interesting that you have done AA but not done AA at the same time.
As I have said earlier, you are living proof of the "whatever works, use" philosophy that is at the root of the fellowship (i.e. the only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking).
By the way, I agree that Bill refers to the God you are talking about - but he was never uintended to be the first and last word on this. He was urging others to do what he did, as are all older members when they say "this worked for me, give it a go", or whatever. Like Bill, they do not have the last word on how you treat your recovery, only you do.
Bill has never said he was a higher power, or god spoke through him or similar. Why we keep rolling out his personal quotations is a little beyond me frankly. Sure, he wrote the book in terms of what he knew. Things have changed, AA has evolved, his story hasn't.
Here, ones 'spirituality' is a completely individual thing and can be construed in any way one likes. If it is not like that there - well... clearly I can't comment except to say that the traditions and steps make certain things clear to me; it is a pity if they have been bastardised in certain parts of the states and elsewhere.
Alcoholics come together in an effort to get sober (remember primary purpose?), relifgion is certainly not the primary purpose, spirituality is a tool to be used if one wishes (again, you are a fantastic example of how this can work in a practical sense).
Cheers.
ETA:Why didn't you answer my post 302?
Apologies, I missed it in the rest.
Um I actually did respond via post 244 during the exchange with both you and Ponderingturtle. Perhaps you simply missed it.
I would suggest you revisit what I said and provide me with the evidence I asked for then we can continue that part of the discussion.
But whilst we are on that part of the topic, I will reiterate/clarify:
- AA does not have the market cornered on recovery.
- Other things do work (please get me the data you guys say is there)
- Sometimes (not always) it is AA or death. Did you know that something like 5% of premature deaths in the western world are related to alcohol/ alcoholism?
- If one is an alcoholic, and continues to practice their addiction, their life will get worse in four areas - these are called the four Ls: Livelihood, Lovelife, Liver (health) and Legal. Death falls under the health category.
You guys talk like alcoholism is not problem and that AA does not help anyone. That claim is patently wrong as evidenced by the two million people (I think is the number quoted earlier) that attend AA.
It has also been suggested that 5% of people just stop. Great, that's 5%. Add AAs 9% to that and we have 14% of alcoholics achieving some semblance of sobriety.
That leaves 86% getting what? Better - hardly. What happens to them? How many die? How many end up institutionalised? Get some data on that is you want to throw these figures around.
AA provides part of the solution, they are not the whole of the solution. Never were, never claimed to be, never want(ed) to be.
Do you have some evidences of this "cultural propaganda"? We don't advertise and we are suppose to "maintain our anonymity at the level of press radio and film"? If an AA'er is producing "propaganda" that is something we can discuss. That would go against the tenets of AA.True, but the CDC and the Medical Community's lumping together of all forms of alcoholism into a disease model is dubious, and politically (rather than medically) based on the Sin/Disease model that has become the de facto model for addiction. It has become more a PC article of Faith, thanks to AA's cultural propaganda. This is probably one of the key reasons why I dislike AA so much.
GB
I'm not saying it is anymore effective than any other treatment. For a very long time AA was the only hope for hopeless alcoholics. Hopefully with the leaps and bounds being made in neuroscience, maybe we are not to far away from a cure or an "antidote" to addiction and alcoholism. Then this debate would be rendered moot. But until that day comes, AA is the only treatment that is available for free, and for those that can't afford hospitalization, AA is still their best hope.Or how it is so much more effective than anything else but with no documentation to back it up. You got to take it on faith that it works better than the alternatives.
I'm not saying it is anymore effective than any other treatment.