chillzero
Penultimate Amazing
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- Dec 11, 2002
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Recently I have been having a bit of a midlife crisis in terms of where I am and where I'm going in life. I realised I have been doing office based IT jobs for 2 decades, and if I don't change anything now, it will be the same for the next 2. The thought of sitting at a desk, trying (and failing) to get my head around office politics for another 20 years just filled me with sheer horror, so I realised it's time to do something about it. This has all been stirring up inside me since my dad's illness, so it isn't a spur of the moment whim.
After chatting things over with some friends, and using a website called Building Windmills, I reviewed my options and weighed my skills and interests against potential incomes. Throwing the job away to devote myself full time to writing and photography is just not feasible much as that would be my preferred life. And, those are activities I can still undertake in my spare time, but I think I will do so more effectively if I am happier in any job I need to retain for a good income. In a few month's time I will probably be able to afford to take a little bit of a drop in wages if necessary, so I can look to (finally) leave IT behind me - even perhaps on a part time basis initially.
So, again, after chatting with some friends, I have decided that I shall consider getting a qualification in CBT, maybe with some additional skills alongside that which are also counselling related. I did a course on counselling skills years ago but never completed the qualification part for a few (irrelevant) reasons. I don't think I'll struggle with the concepts, and methodology, and I've always had positive feedback when I've been involved in a situation where I utilise those skills.
Now, I know some people who are finding CBT to be an effective method for handling matters such as depression. I can see that it seems to be more respected and effective than traditional counselling techniques. I see a lot of pros, in favour of this as a good path for me to consider. What I am wondering is about the cons. Do you know of any reasons I should be considering not taking this qualification? I will be making my decision at the end of this week, and just thought I'd get a steer from you guys.
After chatting things over with some friends, and using a website called Building Windmills, I reviewed my options and weighed my skills and interests against potential incomes. Throwing the job away to devote myself full time to writing and photography is just not feasible much as that would be my preferred life. And, those are activities I can still undertake in my spare time, but I think I will do so more effectively if I am happier in any job I need to retain for a good income. In a few month's time I will probably be able to afford to take a little bit of a drop in wages if necessary, so I can look to (finally) leave IT behind me - even perhaps on a part time basis initially.
So, again, after chatting with some friends, I have decided that I shall consider getting a qualification in CBT, maybe with some additional skills alongside that which are also counselling related. I did a course on counselling skills years ago but never completed the qualification part for a few (irrelevant) reasons. I don't think I'll struggle with the concepts, and methodology, and I've always had positive feedback when I've been involved in a situation where I utilise those skills.
Now, I know some people who are finding CBT to be an effective method for handling matters such as depression. I can see that it seems to be more respected and effective than traditional counselling techniques. I see a lot of pros, in favour of this as a good path for me to consider. What I am wondering is about the cons. Do you know of any reasons I should be considering not taking this qualification? I will be making my decision at the end of this week, and just thought I'd get a steer from you guys.

