The Central Scrutinizer
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How, exactly, do you define your statement/belief in such a way that it's not sexist?
Common sense.
How, exactly, do you define your statement/belief in such a way that it's not sexist?
Common sense.
That explains nothing. Could you please elaborate?
That explains nothing. Could you please elaborate?
I'll give it a shot.
The morality of using physical force is partly dependent upon the amount needed to subdue your opponent and the amount of force that your opponent can use on you. (For example, disciplining a child with a scythe is unacceptable.) Women on average are less physically imposing so they need less force to subdue and have less force at their beck and call so the morality of hitting an average unarmed woman is different from hitting an average unarmed man.
I'll add that when I think about women being hit, I think of domestic violence, where women are vastly more likely than men to be victims. I don't think it particularly sexist to point that out.That explains nothing. Could you please elaborate?
I'll add that when I think about women being hit, I think of domestic violence, where women are vastly more likely than men to be victims. I don't think it particularly sexist to point that out.
Woman can be as dangerous as a man. I've seen women attack men with weapons. If a woman comes at you with a knife or a gun or any other deadly weapon then you can hit her.Is there any circumstances in which hitting a woman would be considered acceptable? And by hitting I don't mean just a slap, I mean with a fist.
You must be an apache dancer?When the hoe won't give up all the money.
Go ahead, call me a bad man.
A lot depends on what study you are relying on. Admittedly, some do have the ratio as low as 6:4. Others have it much higher.Only if by vastly you mean in a ratio of 6:4.
I'll give it a shot.
The morality of using physical force is partly dependent upon the amount needed to subdue your opponent and the amount of force that your opponent can use on you. (For example, disciplining a child with a scythe is unacceptable.) Women on average are less physically imposing so they need less force to subdue and have less force at their beck and call. Therefore, the morality of hitting an average unarmed woman is different from hitting an average unarmed man.
If a woman comes screaming at you with a katana, feel free to use your best haymaker.
I'll add that when I think about women being hit, I think of domestic violence, where women are vastly more likely than men to be victims. I don't think it particularly sexist to point that out.
I hit a woman once. Not a proud moment. There were factors however. She was my fiance. I had just found out that she was cheating on me with my "best friend". She walked up to me all sad looking and held out her arms. In mid-hug she kneed me in the balls and raked her nails across my face from top to bottom across my eyes. To this day I claim I didn't hit a women I merely hit swung at what was hurting me to stop it. That was the only time in my life I have literally seen red.
Just to be clear, these men were ridiculed for *not* hitting the woman back? Is that why you hit back, so you wouldn't be ridiculed?Well, I recently watched a German documentary about men getting hit on a regular basis without being able to do anything about it in their love, shame and worries about loosing their children. Their experience was that they were ridiculed by their environment, and probably would be ridiculed by some posters in this very thread in here as well.
Just to be clear, these men were ridiculed for *not* hitting the woman back? Is that why you hit back, so you wouldn't be ridiculed?
I'm sure that's true in some cases. In other cases, I'm sure, the violence was not returned because the man didn't feel the need to retaliate with violence.Uh, no. The fact that there is domestic violence against men from their women has nothing to do with me. They were, however, ridiculed for the very fact that they let it happen.
Their explanation were: "Didn't want to break up the family and lose my children", "Didn't wan't my friends and colleagues know about that shameful fact" etc...