Maybe something as simple as a name change. Go back to calling it mesmerism...something to delineate the magic from the science. I would agree that saying, "You're all just playing along," kinda saps the fun out of it, so feel free to make it more fantastical like you're allowing them to channel long dead celebrities...I don't know. Use some gimmick where you're not impinging on the domain of science (pure fantasy vs. embellished reality).
Obviously I can't sit down and think up an act for you, no more than I can write a screenplay that might help reduce the "CSI effect." And I can't formulate some golden rule that will apply to every genre of entertainment. I'm merely pointing out places where I see there is a problem. What else can I do but frame it as an ethical dilemma?
Don't get me wrong. I do understand why you put it as an ethical dilemma. To be honest, after I've been doing hypnosis and realized what it was for a while, I had to wrestle how I can present this.
Here's what I came up with, and it's honestly what I feel what hypnosis is.
Before I start the hypnosis show, I say the following, (Not exactly, I tend to improv some of it, but the message is the same):
"A lot of people ask me what exactly is hypnosis is. Here is the best way I can describe it.
Being in a hypnotic trance is like going to the movies. Imagine what it's like going to the movies: You sit there in a comfortable seat, you focus completely on this big screen, hearing the exciting music, you laugh at the funny scenes, you wince when the protagonist gets hurt, you cry when the hero is sad, your heart beats faster when you see the exciting bits, you feel the entire movie and experience what the protagonist experiences.
And with all of that, you completely ignore the guy in the row in front of you eating his popcorn loudly."
And even with that, my shows still work. People still go under.
Now I've told the truth. Hypnosis is concentration on something, like reading a book, driving for a long time, daydreaming, etc. so much that you are "lost" in that thought. It's something we do all the time. It's something you're doing right now.
Mix that with the desire of the participant, and the mind being more open to suggestion because of the desire of the participant and the concentration, you've got hypnosis.
That's how I present it. I tell the truth, but I really don't give anything away.
Again, I am meaning no disrespect or confrontation, I'd like to know if you think the way I present hypnosis is unethical?