Who here is blaming god for suffering? Most of the people in this thread don't believe in god, and don't believe he's to blame for any of the suffering in the world.
We live in a hostile environment, there's all kinds of bacteria and viruses running around, plus a whole whack of evil people. Add in your basic negligence, and yup. Bad things happen to good people all the time. Someone's kid is getting cancer, somebody up the street is getting shot, and your next door neighbor's house is accidentally set on fire. We all get that. Life is a crapshoot.
Where the disconnect comes in is when someone believes that this omnipotent and benevolent god is watching over everybody on earth, and is able to respond to their prayers, and yet still somehow allows 40,000 children to die every day, while others are hit with earthquakes and tsunamis, plus a whole lot of other suffering through accident, disease, violence, and natural disasters. Is god up there answering prayers and keeping people safe, or does he find joy in watching people suffer so much?
Again, keep in mind that I and many others don't believe there is a god looking over anything, so we don't cast any blame in his direction. I'd like to know how you reconcile a loving omnipotent being with all the suffering you see happening in the world? Is it really so easy to blame every incident of pain or suffering on some long-dead couple who once ate a piece of fruit they were told not to touch?