reason1,
GzuzKryzt is trying to find a way for you to get beyond an impossible test. What you are saying is that you have a definition for staring that others do not have.
So the first thing is that you have to give a precise and coherent definition of what you think staring is.
He has already defined "staring" as he sees it (pardon the pun) - more than once in my opinion. Please review the selected quotations of posts by Reason1 to see what he means:
Staring is when you look at something for a while because you desire to,
If you are looking at a beautiful girl for a while, it's staring.
If you are looking at a new car for a while, it's staring.
The telepathy happens between the unconscious mind of the staring person and mine and if we get some people to look at me from behind, it will be acting staring that will not involve any unconscious telepathy and I'm not sure that I'll be able to detect anything
the self test will not eliminate staring because acting staring (or if i may say passive staring) can easily become active staring,what if for example the staring person noticed something about my hair
I'm not saying that there are 2 types of staring.
there is one type which is when you look at something for a while because you desire to.
passive/acting staring is when you look at something for the sake of demonstrating a test and that shouldn't happen in a public place of random people that are not aware of any test being done
My argument was that getting someone to look at me intensively from behind is NOT staring.Trusted/promised starers are even less of a choice here, these will be consciously trying so hard to stare at me so i can detect them and this (again) is NOT staring. moreover the trusted starers will have a less reason to stare, they know me very well. When you keep staring at something,you will get bored at some moment and if you see this thing again you will likely not stare at it.
Staring is when you look at something intensively because you desire to do so, and that involves the conscious and the subconscious levels.
Looking at something intensively for the sake of demonstrating a test is NOT staring (acting/passive), and that involves only the conscious level, you don't have any desire, subconscious motivation or curiosity to do so,it's boring and doesn't happen in normal every day life.
well...actually this is very true, i will not accept any uncontrolled protocol that doesn't even demonstrate my claim which is "I can detect when people stare at me" not "i can detect when people look at me from behind".
Honestly, what more do you want from the guy? It seems pretty clear to me that his definition of staring begins with the dictionary definition and adds further constraints:
* The starer must have a selfish desire for staring such as personal interest, attraction, curiosity.
* The starer must not be distracted and begin thinking of something else.
* The starer must not be staring for another reason such as being instructed to do so for the purposes of a test.
I'm not saying this is testable but it does give his definition of staring.
What I have been wondering about his how he
knows that the person staring at him is doing so as defined above. It seems that he does
not know. He only assumes. I base this conclusion on the quotes below but invite Reason1 to clarify how he knows a person, for example, has a desire to look at him.
I don't catch them returning my gaze, i catch them avoiding my gaze, while in normal situations they shouldn't (as you stated)
I think they will be sure that you are staring if you reflexed your head away by more than 45 degrees.
well...your scenario will take much more time than mine.
in mine,it will be a reflex on my part followed instantly by reflex on part of the staring person.
I don't look when i detect when someone is staring, it's a sudden turn of my head towards that person, it's like a reflex
No... i don't make reflexes at people when i don't sense any staring
My protocol:
I'll be sitting in the chosen public place (maybe pretending that I'm reading a book)
When someone stares at me (whether from behind, above, right or left) I'll detect that and I'll suddenly look back exactly at that person.
The staring one will be caught off guard and will try to avoid being caught staring, by suddenly turning his/her head away which proves that he/she was staring at me.
It will be a sudden move from my side followed instantly by a sudden move form the staring one.
It's self-evident protocol that proves that I have scientifically unexplainable ability to detect people who stare at me.
Also this experience happened with me thousands of times before. I'll give examples later.
Basically, it seems like he doesn't make a conscious decision that someone is "staring" - it's a reflex. His "confirmation" is that the "starer" reflexively looks away. From this he is making the assumption that the "starer" actually had some sort of personal motivation for looking directly at him.
With these constraints he has invented for "staring" and his reliance upon his reflex and that of the starer, I don't believe a "trusted" person staring at him is useful in any way.
Personally, I don't think there's anything paranormal. He said early on, "I mean what are the chances that I'll identify for example 5 people who stare out of 100 random people?"
The real question is, "While in a crowd of people and suddenly turning my head in a particular direction, what are the chances that someone within my ~160 degree field of vision will react by turning their head away at the same time?"
Well, if you're a 6'8" black guy in US Army fatigues on a Japanese subway platform during rush hour, I'd say the chances are 100%. By contrast if you're a 5'8" nondescript guy in a mosh pit, the chances are slim to none. Or, as someone else mentioned, if you're wearing an ugly hat while sitting in a mall eatery, the odds are someone will react.
I do not disagree that if he turns his head suddenly and someone looks away that there's a good chance that person was staring. However, at
best his experiences if related and recalled 100% accurately (a BIG if) only demonstrate that he is often stared at when he's in a crowd. There is no way he can draw any conclusions about the conscious or subconscious desires of the starer. This is his own invention.
Apparently he has never tested simulating his reflexive action to see if others react as if they are staring. That would be the only thing I would suggest for a self-test all things considered. Even then he could argue that they were staring at him, but he just hadn't detected it yet.
Reason1's conclusion that there is something paranormal here is unfounded.