Godless, most stars we found exoplanets around, have hot jupiters, erasing the possibility of habitable terrestrial planets forming
For the simple reason that they are the easiest to find. To find smaller planets in longer orbits takes a much longer observation time, very sensitive equipment, and careful analysis. But they're starting to be found, such as
this planet, found over two and a half years ago.
As for how much of the Galaxy we know, maybe this little picture from
NASA might help you to visualise it;
What you can see is that, in terms of extra-solar planets, we know a little bit about a very tiny area in the local vicinity of the Sun. I say we know a little bit, because, as I said, our instruments aren't sensitive to lower mass planets, so we don't expect to know anything much about them yet.
As for Fermi's paradox, it's a red herring. There are several possible reasons why we haven't yet encountered or detected alien life. It's only a paradox if you start with the assumption that there is at least one advanced alien civilization with the capability of interstellar travel.
Even assuming that there is life on other planets in this Galaxy, we may not detect it for a very long time. Even the most generous calculations of Drake's equation give values of 10 advanced civilizations in the Galaxy at any single time, which when you look at the above graphic suggests that we haven't explored anything like enough space to find other inhabited planets, particularly taking in to account.
You might argue that a technologically advanced civilization would have been broadcasting TV and radio signals, which we could detect, but that too is a red herring. The TV and radio that we broadcast are rather weak, and would be undetectable beyond just a few light years from the Sun. Furthermore, most countries in the world are converting to cable and satellite broadcasting, with conventional EM broadcasting rapidly becoming a thing of the past. In less than 50 years the Earth will have almost completely stopped broadcasting such signals. That means that we will have spent only about 100 years sending these signal out into space. Think about that for a moment, about 100 years. Assuming that an advanced alien civilization followed a similar evolution in technology it would mean that they'd have to be close enough to us that their signals were still detectable,
and they'd have to have developed their technology at exactly the right time in order for their 100 years of signals to be passing us at the same time as we were looking.