ponderingturtle
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I really didn't delve too deeply into that particular subject because it's quite off topic for the thread, but, since it was brought up:
While I agree that it's not the smartest thing to do (starting a family, or even adding to an existing family) when one is in dire financial straits, the reality of life is that most people do not plan their children. I certainly didn't plan mine, nor did the majority of mothers I know. There are quite a few of us who were told by doctors that we couldn't get pregnant, and guess what? The doctor was wrong. There are also quite a few for whom birth control did not work as advertised. Then there are those who refrain from chemical or barrier forms of control due to religious beliefs -- those same religious beliefs also preclude denying their husbands, by the way -- or allergic reaction (latex allergies, for example). Then there are those who were the victim of sexual assault. And then, there are those who are young and stupid and think "oh, it couldn't happen to me."
Non Latex condoms are pefectly available. Most of this seems to be choice, ignorance, or failure of birth control. As to the last one, when practiced properly it is very unlikely.