I am still not getting it, Robin. Omelas shows what is wrong with Utilitarianism in principle. If you accept that we can never get rid of all suffering, then working towards the maximising of happiness results in just such an outcome. In a utilitarian conception Omelas is a good and moral place.
On the contary, Utilitarianism, as defined by J.S. Mill would regard Omelas as a bad and immoral place.
You are not getting it because you are still insisting that your straw version of Utilitarianism is correct. But it is not.
Mill said specifically that you should value another persons good as much as you value your own. If you valued another persons good as much as your own then you could never, not even
in principle be happy in Omelas.
So by Mill's definition a Utilitarian should walk away from Omelas.
Again you say that we need subjectivity. You agree we cannot assume the answer to the question. Where the person cannot respond, as in the unconscious patient, then you must ask her family and friends. So if they answer that they do not see any harm in the abuse that settles the matter? Not for me, I am afraid. I think it would still be wrong. It seems to me that you agree, yet I cannot see how utilitarianism gets you to that conclusion.
As a general rule Utilitarianism would say it is wrong because our overwhelming weight of experience and evidence is that it would cause unhappiness. Even if the family agreed to it, even if all the friends agreed to it it could not be considered good because the co-workers and the owners of the medical establishment are all parties.
If nobody involved at all had any problem with it whatsoever then we could not establish that the nurse had done anything morally wrong until the patient herself woke up.
If the nurse checks with his employer and his co-worker and ensures that the woman's friends and family are on board with his little plan and everybody agreed that it was morally OK for the nurse to do what he did and the patient herself said, "that's fine, I wasn't using my body anyway", then on what basis was the nurse's action wrong? I think it a slightly implausible example.
But how do
you get to that conclusion that it was immoral.
The comatose patient who wakes up happy and marries the abuser is the essence of the "sleeping beauty" story. It is a very common theme. We teach it to children, (albeit in bowdlerised form: you may wish to make that an important distinction, but I cannot really see any essential difference if we assume the prince does not stop at a kiss).
No essential difference between a kiss and a fcuk? And does the prince have to keep his activities secret?
Or consider the Stockholm syndrome. It is not so unlikely - it happens. Does the fact that the captive reports themselves happy after conversion make the kidnapping right? It seems to me on your argument that it does.
If, after being free from the kidnappers and having time to think on it and discuss it with counsellors, they continue to be happy with the kidnapping then how could you say that there was nothing wrong with it?
Do you say you know better than them?
What about someone who was kidnapped from a cult and deprogrammed and was happy with the kidnapping? Would you say that was morally wrong?
So we cannot know, on the basis of utilitarianism, whether any given instance is right or wrong until we see the outcome.
Oh come now, I think that in the vast majority of cases we know whether or not our intentions are good. If we do not know whether our intentions are good then how does any moral system help us?
That is the essence of subjectivity and I do not think it leads to a moral conclusion. You may argue that the harm done to family and friends and the wider society outweighs the happiness of the kidnappers and their victim but I cannot see how one can measure and count those things in any "subjective" way: what is wrong with it seems to me to be based on some other intuition than arithmetic.
If you have some arithmetic that can tell us right from wrong then please share.
Please understand I am not arguing that system solves all dilemmas: I am only exploring the limits of subjectivity and I cannot get around the fact that the nurse's actions seem to me to be wrong even if every other person in the scenario does not agree that they are.
So do you think the Prince's actions in Sleeping Beauty (Disney version) are morally wrong?
And I do not agree that the "sleeping beauty" outcome is a problem for all ethical systems. Even in that case the nurse's actions would still be wrong within the Kantian model.
Please show how you think the Kantian model would lead to the conclusion that his act was wrong even if everybody involved, including the woman herself, approved.