It's about acts, not intentions.From your description it seems as though she is very much the subject of his attentions.
Looking after a person, at high costs, means to regard this person as highly valuable who deserves this effort. To assume this treats the person merely as an object of something, is irrational.What would be the difference from another nurse who satisfied his monetary needs rather than his sexual needs, in other words who accepted a salary for looking after her? Would that person be equally blameworthy? What would be the difference?
Depends how you behave. For instance, if you don't fulfill the contract you have agreed upon with the driver by jumping out of the cab not paying him, you are to blame.What about if I take a taxi, but really do not care which particular driver takes me? Am I therefore as blameworthy as the male nurse in your example?
Kant has not written nonsense. But he has written in German, if you want a link to the original German text, you're welcome.And given that your position now rests on a hasty rewording of a factually disputed Wikipedia article with no citations, can you give any evidence that Kant ever said this nonsense in the first place?
This is one of Kant's different formulations. I think, he developed five or six.Here is Kant's own wording of the Humanity formulation of the Categorical Imperative:
So act as to treat humanity, whether in thine own person or in that of any other, in
every case as an end withal, never as means only.
The first paragrah of this wikipedia-entry and a perceived hostility from parts of the forum when this topic comes up, that seemed to indicate that people found even the idea objectionable. It is hardly conclusive, and I don't think that I can convince you if i start quote-mineing through the whole forum. It isn't worth the effort to verify it, so i don't insist on it's truthfullness. I take it as a working-hypothesis and will take care to place disclaimers to avoid being frequently accused of being a biased , double-standards-applying apologist for whatever.
Yes, I am sure it is not a non-sequitur. He is clearly giving this as a reason as to why he will not join the "new atheists". It would therefore make no sense if he did not regard this as a point of difference between himself and them.Are you sure this isn't a non-sequitur? He is talking about his own bedrock-faith reflecting his attitude. This in itself does not imply that the 'new atheists' attitude, as described in the article reflects a negation of his faith.
You could simply explain how it is possible for there to be a "strong prohibition (or ban)" on a subject I and others spend a lot of time arguing.The first paragrah of this wikipedia-entry and a perceived hostility from parts of the forum when this topic comes up, that seemed to indicate that people found even the idea objectionable. It is hardly conclusive, and I don't think that I can convince you if i start quote-mineing through the whole forum.
Personally I do see that there are certain things with religion that could indeed be said to beneficial (at least for some individuals, I am not so sure about if it is for society as a whole). The thing is that all the things I have seen, so far, being mentioned as a good thing about religion, are such things that can be provided by other things than religion! There doesn't seem to be any good things about religion that is unique to religion only! And so, for me, in the light of all the bad things religion brings (a few of which I suspect might actually be unique to religion) there is no reason to defend religion on the grounds that there are some good things about it.
Wrong.The problem is that anyone halfway intelligent can see the harm involved, or at the very least would be familiar with the basic facts of child development and sexual molestation. There is no reason to "assume" that there is no harm, because there is clear evidence of harm from any amount of case studies.
Yes, I am sure it is not a non-sequitur. He is clearly giving this as a reason as to why he will not join the "new atheists". It would therefore make no sense if he did not regard this as a point of difference between himself and them.
You could simply explain how it is possible for there to be a "strong prohibition (or ban)" on a subject I and others spend a lot of time arguing.
How is it that I never came up against this strong prohibition or ban myself?
How does that relate to what I said?It's about acts, not intentions.
It seems that your male nurse is looking after at an even higher cost that normal nurses, and so would regard her as even more valuable.Looking after a person, at high costs, means to regard this person as highly valuable who deserves this effort. To assume this treats the person merely as an object of something, is irrational.
Why does that make a difference? After all I am using the driver as a means to an end in each case and not as an end in himself.Depends how you behave. For instance, if you don't fulfill the contract you have agreed upon with the driver by jumping out of the cab not paying him, you are to blame.
Link in German if you like, if you think it makes sense in German.Kant has not written nonsense. But he has written in German, if you want a link to the original German text, you're welcome.
You said nothing about an act, but an intention.How does that relate to what I said?
Correct. This is a morally desirable behaviour. Not so his violational acts, which are inherently bad.It seems that your male nurse is looking after at an even higher cost that normal nurses, and so would regard her as even more valuable.
You are using him as a means to an end in any case, that's correct. Everybody does this all the time. When you enter the cab you have normally agreed to a contract with another rational being, the driver. You therebye accept he's indeed a subject who owns certain individual rights. Objects (hammers, cars, bottles, animals) don't own any right. By totally disregarding your contract and ignoring his right you treat the driver as a mere object of your transportation request.Why does that make a difference? After all I am using the driver as a means to an end in each case and not as an end in himself.
It also makes sense in English for me. It makes sense for a trillian other people. Hence, it makes sense. If it does not make sense for you personally, you might want to check the possibility that you are either ignorant or incompetent. In the latter case, learning can probably help.Link in German if you like, if you think it makes sense in German.
I agree. All religions I am aware of have a strong moralphilosophic component, that could be provided by philosophy alone.
A paternal figure like the one provided in abrahamic religions could be provided by a strong leader figure as well. A possible example of this would be Mao Zedong who actually spawned a personality cult.
Spiritual searching can be done solitary, although I think a community of likeminded people makes it easier.
A community with a strong ideological identification to provide it's members with a common goal and a codified set of rules and practices could be completely secular. The communist party of the soviet union would be an example for this.
I am just not sure whether this would actually be an improvement. What kind of replacements do you have in mind?

My emphasis.Actually, I think he gives that he wants to 'continue to have respectful conversations even about things we find ridiculous' as a reason that he will not join the 'new atheists' and states that this reflects his 'bedrock-faith'.
You seriously don't think that this is an important distinction?*Sigh* Ok, it is not a taboo, but merely an emotionally loaded topic.
I didn't even use the word "intention".You said nothing about an act, but an intention.
I don't think you understood what I said. The higher price he extracts is sex. The other nurses merely accept money in exchange for their care, he accepts money and sex and therefore, according to you, regards her as being more valuable than the other nurses do. So it must be, according to you, morally desirable behaviour. So tell me, why do you call his acts 'violational' if he is, according to you, doing no harm?Correct. This is a morally desirable behaviour. Not so his violational acts, which are inherently bad.
That does not follow at all. In either case I have entered into a contract with a rational being. In one case I honour the contract with the rational being. In the other case I decide not to honour the contract with the rational being. I have treated him as a rational being in each case. So if I should not care a twig about consequences, or making him unhappy then there is no difference.You are using him as a means to an end in any case, that's correct. Everybody does this all the time. When you enter the cab you have normally agreed to a contract with another rational being, the driver. You therebye accept he's indeed a subject who owns certain rights. Objects (hammers, cars, bottles, animals) don't own any right. By totally disregarding your contract you treat the driver as a mere object of your transportation request.
I would be using rationality in either case. If I could get away with not paying the taxi driver and I am not to care about consequences or resulting unhappiness then it is more rational not to honour my contract since that would leave me better off.This is rational. Kant wants you to use your rationality, sapere aude. Most people do this, and don't act like ignorant idiots.
Really? That many?I also makes sense in English for me. It makes sense for a trillian other people.
You appear to be making something of a dogs breakfast of explaining the position, so I have no evidence that you understand it in any language.Hence, it makes sense. If it does not make sense for you personally, you might want to check the possibility that you are ignorant or incompetent. In the latter case, learning can probably help.
I don't see an abrahamic paternal figure as one of the good things with religion.
What's the point here? That a community of likeminded people can't be found outside of religion?![]()
I don't quite get your point here either?? "A community with a strong ideological identification to provide it's members with a common goal and a codified set of rules and practices" is a good thing within religion, but as soon as it is a secular version it runs the risk of turning into Soviet Union?![]()
Personally I don't think it is a good thing to search for a supernatural father figure in the first place, for example, so why would I think that that would be one of those good things about religion? And so why would I then think it would be good to replace that with a personality cult as with Mao?![]()
My emphasis
Incidentally I am touched by his greater faith that he can hold a respectful conversation with people who's deepest beliefs he calls 'ridiculous'. An entirely new and unfamiliar usage of the word 'respectful'.
If we refrained from debate on the basis that certain subjects were emotionally loaded to certain people then there would be no such thing as an internet forum.
But I mistakenly thought you did.I didn't even use the word "intention".
Rubbish. Nurses don't "accept money" from a patient, they demand it from their employer. They don't demand anything from any patient in return for their service. Especially, they don't demand anything from a comatose patient. In contrast to our moral agent who demands sex from that patient and makes sex without her consent to his demand. Assuming that making sex without consent to a person uncapable to express consent would honour that person in any kind is irrational. It's ignorant idiocy.I don't think you understood what I said. The higher price he extracts is sex. The other nurses merely accept money in exchange for their care, he accepts money and sex and therefore, according to you, regards her as being more valuable than the other nurses do.
He violates her human dignity, of which sexual self-determination is an important part.So tell me, why do you call his acts 'violational' if he is, according to you, doing no harm?
But you have not treated him as a subject who is entitled to a right and whose will to execute this right is obviously justified. Objects don't have any right and no will. That's how you treated him. This is all very rational reasoning.That does not follow at all. In either case I have entered into a contract with a rational being. In one case I honour the contract with the rational being. In the other case I decide not to honour the contract with the rational being. I have treated him as a rational being in each case.
But you would not use rationality on Kant's imperative.I would be using rationality in either case. If I could get away with not paying the taxi driver and I am not to care about consequences or resulting unhappiness then it is more rational not to honour my contract since that would leave me better off.
Enough to invalidate your bizzare assertion that Kant's crystal clear imperative made no sense. A few people on the fringe, like you, seem to think so. But who cares?Really? That many?
That's because ignorant idiocy doesn't deliver evidence.You appear to be making something of a dogs breakfast of explaining the position, so I have no evidence that you understand it in any language.
Sorry if I didn't answer directly to you. I think, my last post makes it clear. His acting is wrong because it is breaching her human dignity. He degrades her to a mere means to his sexual satisfaction.Herzblut, it has been two pages and you have still failed to answer my question:
If the sexual relationship between the male nurse and the comatose female patient doesn't result in any harm coming to her, or anyone else, then why is it wrong?
I never said they did, I said the accept money in return for their services.Rubbish. Nurses don't "accept money" from a patient, they demand it from their employer. They don't demand anything from any patient in return for their service. Especially, they don't demand anything from a comatose patient.
I never even remotely suggested that it did honour that person. You were the one who suggested that nurses accepting money in return for medical care was a sign that they valued the person.In contrast to our moral agent who demands sex from that patient and makes sex without her consent to his demand. Assuming that making sex without consent to a person uncapable to express consent would honour that person in any kind is irrational. It's ignorant idiocy.
Of course he does. It is wrong, not because he treats her as a means, but because he harms her.He violates her human dignity, of which sexual self-determination is an important part.
You can't cheat an object and it is irrational for you to suggest that you can. So by the very act of cheating him I am acknowledging his humanity and his rationality.But you have not treated him as a subject who is entitled to a right and whose will to execute this right is obviously justified. Objects don't have any right and no will. That's how you treated him. This is all very rational reasoning.
I have used nothing but.But you would not use rationality on Kant's imperative.
Actually most people seem to think that consequences do matter.Enough to invalidate your bizzare assertion that Kant's crystal clear imperative made no sense. A few people on the fringe, like you, seem to think so. But who cares?
I think you had better re-read that exchangeThat's because ignorant idiocy doesn't deliver evidence.
It was not obvious from your initial comments on the matter that you understood these self-evident facts.Sorry if I didn't answer directly to you. I think, my last post makes it clear. His acting is wrong because it is breaching her human dignity. He degrades her to a mere means to his sexual satisfaction.
Likewise, sex with a child is morally unacceptable because it is sex without mutual consent. A little kid is not able to reasonably grant or deny consent.
Violating the sexual self-dermination of a human being is regarded as severe crime in many countries. It's a criminal act with or without violation of the physical integrity of the victim. The latter is of course a crime as well and adds to the total guilt of the predator.
It is bizarre I have to explain obvious, self-evident facts.