AkuManiMani said:
Are you seriously arguing that child abuse of this sort would not occur if everyone were atheist?
Nope, that's your lame straw man. You hear what you want to hear in order not to notice that religion is most definitely involved in this horror.
So its a strawman even tho you really are arguing that religion is the cause??? Okay, lets try to follow your "logic" here:
The daughter had no way of knowing that her father could be delusional.
Its quite common for children to believe that the appalling conditions they live under are "normal". I've grown up in a fundie family and personally questioned their religious beliefs at an early age; if I were being abused my personal atheism wouldn't do much to prevent it from happening. Whether or not that poor girl was able to understand what was happening to her is unclear and irrelevant to the fact that she had no control over her situation.
Oh, and you still didn't answer my question. Do you believe that kind of child abuse would stop if everyone were atheist? If not, then why factor religion in as the cause? If yes, then please explain why.
We are told it's arrogant to question god. We see the people who teach us about this "god" as trustworthy by proxy.
"We" who? Which god? I thought we were talking about this specific instance of child abuse. Considering the context of this statement is pretty clear that you feel that religion is the reason why that girl was abused.
The daughter needed a place where she could read words like this and get the power to ask questions and think.
The daughter needed to be taken into protective custody. Her being enlightened to the world beyond the manufactured fantasy of her father could come afterward.
AkuManiMani said:
Also it really wouldn't matter how capable the girl was of questioning and thinking. Obviously, since she was being raped and held prisoner, what she asked and thought really wasn't a factor. The guy could have told her that it was legal for him to treat her that way or that he was God himself -- her belief, or lack thereof, in what he was saying wouldn't change her situation at all.
Oh, it matters... just like the link I provided where they took a bunch of young girls from the polygamous compound. If you can indoctrinate a child to believe that certain men speak to god and have the key to salvation, you can get them to do pretty much anything... and feel like it's what god wants.
I was referring to the article posted in the OP. In that particular instance the girl's abuse had nothing to do with her personal belief and everything to do with her father's insanity. She was made a prisoner and subjected to sexual abuse.
The case in the OP was an instance of a man using his personal delusions as justification for his insanity. Religion was used as a lame excuse but it wasn't the
cause. The fact that you equate his pathology with being on par with all religion is unjustified and a bit silly.
Yes, I find that story very disturbing
Can you not understand your bias...? how you are shielding religious involvement and the socially glorified "ability" to "get messages" from god?
My bias???
I'm not shielding a religious movement. I'm disputing your argument that because a child abuser thinks the voice in his head is god that religion is the cause of child abuse. Your line of argument is identical to theists trying to argue that since Stalin and Pol Pot were atheists that atheism is evil and harmful. The logic simply does not follow.
Blackness has to do with skin color... not a mind virus... not a woo... and this is what I mean by coddling religion... you hear stuff that isn't there to avoid the obvious. When you encourage and reward people for "faith" and hearing god and purporting divine secrets-- you encourage this behavior.... whether they really feel they are getting secrets or not.
I "
encourage this behavior"....? EH???
I think you missed my point completely...
And, yes, I feel if this girl would have had an adult in her life or a forum where she can read that there is no reason to think anyone is getting messages from god --then she would have been better off than she and her offspring are today.
Hows about she would be better off if she didn't have a nut-job father sexually abusing her? Sure, being exposed to the internet and differing points of view would benefit any child but what does that have to do with the fact that she was being sexually abused? Are you suggesting that her ignorance was the cause of the abuse??
I think this inane covering for religion --as though it can't be can't possibly cause harm --is very harmful indeed. What you twist from the words that are said shows an incredibly poor and biased thought process and the need to defend religion.
What did I twist? Bias? I simply asked if you thought that this kind of child abuse would be prevented if everyone were atheist. It was a perfectly reasonable question since you clearly think religion is the cause.
If her Father used Scientology teachings or Muslim teachings or some new age woo to convince his daughter that this was part of some divine plan, you'd guys actually read and understand the words other people are writing and see the connection between promoting "faith" and the results it can have.
Erm...so lemme get this strait. A girl is sexually abused because people are promoting faith? So do you think that, on the basis of such cases, religion should be prohibited by law? If the guy didn't have any religious background and simply told the girl that thats how daddies loved their daughters it would still be a heinous crime. This isn't an issue of religion, its an issue of child abuse and a madman using his personal delusion as justification. Obviously the defense "god made me do it" doesn't hold up in a court of law anymore than "the devil made me" or the FSM, or the Mystical Purple Space Monkey.
Why do you think you understand analogies or logical fallacies?
Erm...the fact that I can use the word "strawman" correctly in a sentence is one reason...
Has anyone given you the impression you do. Your analogies are poor.
You took the words right out of my mouth; I was about to say the same thing of you. This would actually be funny if you were deliberately trying to be ironic. In this case its just creepy....
Religion is like racism-- it's inculcated via indoctrination and culture.
And so is any other cultural element. If this were a discussion about the indoctrination of children then your points would be well taken. The issue at hand is that a child was sexually abused by her father and he happened to do it under a delusional pretense. Whether that delusion were based off of "God told me" or a secret message he decoded from his favorite TV program is completely incidental to the fact that he is mentally ill. No one is defending him because he believes god talks to him and no court will let him off the hook because of that delusion so I'm failing to see how the alleged special status of religion was the cause of this tragedy.
Is your bias so extreme that you have to liken my words to racism?
Actually it was
you who posted the preemptory defense that your statements weren't "hate speech". Clearly, on some level, you can see the clear bias in your
own statements; I simply pointed out your obvious prejudice. Your statement basically boiled down to:
"This man believed he heard messages from god in his head. He sexually abused his child based on these 'messages'. Religion caused sexual abuse. Religion is evil."
One could easily see the parallels between that and the type of rationale used to justify racism or any other form of prejudice.
Plug in Scientology to the religion in question, and see just how strong your biases are as well as your knee-jerk protection for faith.
What specific "faith" was I protecting, pay tell?
There are some harms only caused by religion... that doesn't mean that all harms are caused by religion --nor does it mean that all religions are harmful nor does it mean that I think all religions are bad. Nor am I criticizing believers-- the daughter was a victim... most believers start out that way. I just think this insane covering for "faith" --as though faith is something good-- is a terrible mind virus.
I wasn't arguing whether "faith" is good or bad; I was merely pointing out the clear lack of objectivity in your statement. "Faith" is completely neutral -- the nature of what a person
chooses to have faith in determines whether or not it is harmful or beneficial.
You can't really tell a mentally ill person getting messages from god from a person who actually gets messages from god from a person who is pretending to get messages to manipulate those who believe in god... and yet you cover for them all when you cover for one. There is no way for anyone to distinguish the difference.
Theres no need to "distinguish the difference". Quite frankly, whether or not he actually heard "the voice of god" is irrelevant. What he did was evil and any "god" that would tell him to do that is obviously insane and/or evil and ought not to be listened to.
And, being subjective the particular "god" in question reflects the psychological make-up of the believer. With that said would you care to elaborate on the relevance of your statement, please?
Faith is not and never will be a means of useful knowledge. If it was good or true, it wouldn't need people trying to shut up those who notice its harms. It wouldn't need your straw man or knee jerk defense.
What does
any of that have to do with child abuse?
[And FYI, you're just as irrational as any religious nut I've met so don't kid yourself]