Older virgins outcasted?

Undesired Walrus said:
I sometimes wonder if the about 95% of the world's population are virgins, and the provable 5% that are not are your parents when you walk in on them. After all, you can never deny that..
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But then where do all the kids come from? o.O
 
Region Rat said:
Well, there are such things as vibrators and such, and it wouldn't seem so difficult or uncommon to 'run the blockade' ahead of time and just plain not mention it. That kind of leads me to believe its more a matter of social (and sexual) ineptness that is holding her back.
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I did know a girl once who claimed that she'd had a couple of "practice runs" with a candle (unlit, of course!) before doing "it" for real - she was seriously worried that she might not be able to stretch enough. Which is a fairly common worry, in my experience.
Certainly it sounds like this woman should get herself off to a sex boutique for some expert help on buying a "lady's best friend".
 
Well for myself, I wouldn't "pull away from a virgin in disgust" but out of all the "chances" I've had with virgins (not counting high school) I've only dated one because I could see myself in a long term relationship her. It didn't turn out that way but I could see it. The others I was just looking for "friends with benefits" and I wouldn't want to put a women in that situation with her first time.
 
Tokenconservative said:
LOL!

This is comical. Where do they gets stuff like this?

Used to be "scoring" a virgin was a biiiiig deal for guys. I guess the feminization of our culture is complete!

Now guys "pull away in disgust" from a virgin? I guess that leaves more for the Islamofascist fanatics, huh?

Tokie
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I don't quite follow. The, "scoring," of a virgin was part of a double-standard (it's ok for guys to have sex before marriage, but not girls.) The double standard is slowly disappearing, given you aren't in the media spotlight, but I can't see how that's, "feminizing," our culture.

What's gone on between someone's legs is really only your concern if you are screwing them. If you're looking to screw them, slip on a little protection and you can worry less about what's treaded that meaty path before you.
 
The thing that struck me about the OP is...what on earth is the woman doing that makes this happen:

One night they were at his house, making out on the couch, when he asked her, "When's the last time you had sex?"
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one night when they were practically naked together in bed it happened again, almost in the exact same way. He asked her about former lovers
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Two different guys ask about other lovers during the heat of the moment? That's kind of a rare kink, you know. I've had a lot of partners and none of them have ever asked about my sexual history during passionate embraces. Funnily enough, most guys don't want you thinking about your last lay while you're making out with them. And they don't want to think about it either. Perhaps she should vet for this kind of guy in advance. Or was she doing something that just screams "virgin"? Or...is the whole thing made up?


"ooh yeah baby, that feels good, you really turn me on. Hey, while we're on the subject, tell me about your former lovers."

Nah. I don't buy it.
 
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tkingdoll said:
"ooh yeah baby, that feels good, you really turn me on. Hey, while we're on the subject, tell me about your former lovers."

Nah. I don't buy it.
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I share your skepticism, but the first one could just be a clumsy attempt to bring up the subject - he asked when and not with whom.

I've certainly been known to end up tasting my own foot after attempting for another part of someone else's anatomy, under this sort of pressure. If you follow.
 
ThatSoundAgain said:
I share your skepticism, but the first one could just be a clumsy attempt to bring up the subject - he asked when and not with whom.
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That is indeed the claim, which then of course contradicts
it happened again, almost in the exact same way
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The whole story is muddled. If it happened (of which I am skeptical) then it's interesting that it's painted to be the guy's fault both times.
 
Region Rat said:
Well, there are such things as vibrators and such, and it wouldn't seem so difficult or uncommon to 'run the blockade' ahead of time and just plain not mention it.
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"Run the blockade". :D I dunno why, but I find that a hilarious phrase given the subject.

Is this a common phrase I've missed, or did you just apply it on-the-fly?
 
ponderingturtle said:
As was shown by the Would You Date A Virgin thread a year ago. A number of people on the forum said no way would that date an older virgin because they must be socialy malajusted and so should be kept away from.

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Wow, that is truly depressing.

My 49ers are getting clobbered, again, and I find out that I'm considered a socially maladjusted freak.
 
tkingdoll said:
That is indeed the claim, which then of course contradicts The whole story is muddled. If it happened (of which I am skeptical) then it's interesting that it's painted to be the guy's fault both times.
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The fact that this story seems improbable, and that it doesn't appear to be the whole story just add to the fact that it - as an anecdote - isn't very significant in the first place.

Look, I'm not defending this incoherent story further than saying that the first question doesn't seem improbable. That's all.

madurobob said:
"Run the blockade". :D I dunno why, but I find that a hilarious phrase given the subject.
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As long as we don't get into metaphors about little Dutch boys' fingers and leaking dykes, I'm good.

Travis said:
Wow, that is truly depressing.

My 49ers are getting clobbered, again, and I find out that I'm considered a socially maladjusted freak.
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Certainly not by me. Not on this info alone.

And in general individuals have to actively make their sex life my business for me to consider it such.
 
Travis said:
Only if your a Cowboys fan. But then they are all a bunch of wife-beating in the closet homophobes.:D;)
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Oh don't be so harsh.

Cowboys fans have only a rudimentary intelligence. They don't have the densely packed grey matter that the rest of humanity has, it's more of a watery mush with single-celled creatures swimming around.

How else can you explain them being Cowboys fans?
 
ThatSoundAgain said:
Look, I'm not defending this incoherent story further than saying that the first question doesn't seem improbable. That's all.
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Oh I don't disagree with that. It could have been one of those hot "yeah, you are really begging for it that's hot" type of when-was-the-last-time questions, for example. But we're then told that the second time was the same, which is then described as totally different. Rat, smell, etc.

You're right, anecdotes are worth what you pay for them. I can't figure this one out though, is it meant to be real or not? And why is there no source for it? If it wasn't invented for this OP then where is it copied from?

A mystery like virginity itself...:boxedin:
 
LostAngeles said:
Oh don't be so harsh.

Cowboys fans have only a rudimentary intelligence. They don't have the densely packed grey matter that the rest of humanity has, it's more of a watery mush with single-celled creatures swimming around.

How else can you explain them being Cowboys fans?
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Well there's always the panspermian spore insemination hypothesis, that might explain why they're Cowboy fans.

Seriously that team is having a pretty good year, not as good as the Patriots....damn you Hokulele!....but having a pretty good season nonetheless.
 
LostAngeles said:
Oh don't be so harsh.

Cowboys fans have only a rudimentary intelligence. They don't have the densely packed grey matter that the rest of humanity has, it's more of a watery mush with single-celled creatures swimming around.

How else can you explain them being Cowboys fans?
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... Other than the 5 Super Bowl rings?
 
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