Er....
The ability to love is closely related to what we are discussing here, but the connection gets a bit nebulous.
Certainly, it is a trait conducive to the survival of the species.
And finding another person sexually attractive is a stimulus to that emotion.
As for its survival value to humans, just ask yourself whether, if you did not really find the female in your life attractive, emotionally comforting or whatever, would you want to put up with her squalling brat when you are trying to sleep?
yep, i accept most of what you say.
I'm just wondering why it is that, if survival value is the supreme value in life (according to Darwinism), why don't we live our lives like that?
Sure, people like to have sex, but with most of it they do their best to stop the perpetuation of their genes (contraception, abortion, withdrawal, non-penetrative sex.. not to mention homosexuality, which I brought up in another post )
But that's just a minor point.
In a purely Darwin-formed living world why would it be that most people for most of the time derive meaning in life from (and therefore ascribe most importance to) forms of behaviour difficult to reconcile with Darwinism... such as religion, music, arts, crafts, a thousand and one hobbies that won't perpetuate their genes, philosophy, humour, watching sport, drinking beer, reality tv, surfing the net, dangerous sports, parachuting, rock climbing etc etc...
A Darwin Universe just would not have produced such incredibly complex phenomena, most of which have no discernible survival value.
