The part of BillyJoe’s post that I was responding to was . . .
“Let's be more concrete still and call o the Earth so that a, b and c are moving relative to the Earth. Can you make sense of the scenario now?“.
Not the part you quoted.
Yes, I knew that when I replied. But even the part you quoted doesn't imply that the Earth has any special significance or that it's important to use the Earth. I quoted that part of his post to show you that he said so himself, in that same post.
Choosing a frame in which the Earth is stationary is no different than e.g. choosing to call the twins "Steve" and "Joe". If I had chosen to call them that, the reason would have been that I wanted to avoid expressions such as "the astronaut twin" and "the twin on Earth" in my explanation, it wouldn't have implied that their names are important.
Yes, and that way is the abstract way. Which is fine if it’s not presented as being reality.
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I have a problem when abstract concepts and mathematics are presented as being actual.
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I’m not questioning the math of relativity, I’m only questioning the basis that it’s founded on.
To me it seems to be founded on abstract concepts that are presented as being real. If I’m wrong, and the basic foundation is sound in reality, then I don’t think I would have much problem accepting Relativity as being more than an abstract concept.
I find these comments pretty strange. As Thabiguy pointed out, these abstract concepts (like inertial frames) are present in pre-relativity physics too. So why do you have a problem with relativity and not Newtonian mechanics?
It seems to me that you may have misunderstood what physics is, rather than just some detail in special relativity. There are several reasons that mathematics is used all the time, and the fact that mathematics makes it possible to calculate things is only one of them. Another reason, that's equally important, is that mathematics makes it possible to
define things so that different physicists can know they're talking about the same thing. This makes the definitions "abstract",
all the definitions. There isn't a single definition in a physical theory that isn't abstract!
That's what physics is. A theory is built from abstract concepts, and then you do experiments trying to prove that the theory
isn't an accurate description of a certain aspect of reality.
In the case of SR, the abstract stuff is simply the mathematics of Minkowski space (which includes inertial frames). The
physical theory is the claim that Minkowski space is an accurate representation of space and time. Only actual, physical, experiments (as opposed to thought experiments) can possibly prove it wrong.
I didn’t understand the first part. I thought the whole point of the twins paradox was that one twin ages more than the other. I think that saying “aging at a slower rate“ is essentially the same as saying “aging less“. The rest I could pretty much follow and understand.
The point is that at any time from when they separate until they meet again, except when the rocket turns around, they would both be correct saying "right now my twin is aging slower than me". That's time dilation. Actually, in a way they'd both be correct saying it during the acceleration phase as well. I'll get back to that later.
Right after the rocket has turned around, the twin on Earth can say "That's weird. During a short time, my brother's aging rate increased. For an instant, it actually caught up with mine. Then it started to decrease again". This is also just time dilation. There is less time dilation going on during the acceleration phase since their relative velocity is smaller.
What the astronaut twin can say right after the rocket has turned around is "Wtf!? my brother just aged several years in a very short time!". That's
not time dilation. It's relativity of simultaneity (the tilting of simultaneity planes).
So why did I claim that it would still make sense for both of them to say "right now my twin is aging slower than me" during the acceleration phase as well? I did because the time dilation is going on the whole time, except at the the precise moment when their relative velocity is zero, and there's no way to reverse its effect. The relativity of simultaneity effect is however reversible at this point. All the astronaut would have to do to be older than his brother again is to turn the ship around again. My point is just that this makes it reasonable to say that we shouldn't use terms like "aging rate" to describe what happens when the simultaneity planes get tilted the other way.
If you didn't understand the first part of #162, you probably didn't understand the rest either, because the rest is the explanation of the first part.