The same can be said of slavery, female subservience, and many other once-widely-accepted practices of which our society has divested itself in modern times. I also happen to believe that anyone who thinks slavery is a-OK is also suffering from something of a mental imbalance.
Some people believe that peanut butter and anchovies go together but I'm not going to eat it.
I think pedophilia disgusting and just up, slightly, from murder. I veiw slavery about the same as I do pedophilia. In some severe cases of pedophilia part of me wants the perpetrator to be cruelly and inhumanely punished.
I suffer from a heightened sense of empathy. I had to seek therapy for awhile because reading about specific cases of child abuse could render me incapable of dealing with every day life. It disturbed and depressed me horribly.
That said, child sexual fantasy does not necessarily indicate a pathology. It can simply be a fetish. Humans can fetishize just about anything including inanimate objects, animals and even abstract concepts (Santa Claus, fairies, ghosts, etc.) A fetish is not considered a mental defect.
There have been societies, particularly native (non-civilized) societies that have engaged openly in adult child sex. It was part of their culture. Researchers have not found evidence of harm to children in these societies.
There is no objective data that adult child sex, absent societal prohibitions, is per se inherently harmful.
There is, on the other hand, objective data that in societies where child sex is taboo the acts are stigmatized and the contact is often a non-consensual one and the child is entirely unfamiliar with what is happening or knows of the stigma attached to the act and IS often very seriously harmed.
So, let me be clear.
- Pedophilia in modern, civilized societies, because of taboos has a great potential to cause harm from the sexual contact alone.
- The perpetrators know that the act is illegal and therefore are more likely to cause additional harm by killing the child or acting in additional aberrant behavior.
- A perpetrator who is willing to break the law to engage in sex with a child is more likely to suffer mental or emotional problems exacerbating the problem and causing harm.
- Adult child sex is not, per se, inherently harmful.
I hope that helps. However, due to the provacative nature of the subject matter I would not be surprised if my intent is still missed.