Lohan It..
If they don't laugh in your face, they'll probably flip you the bird."Forget all the moral crap about life priorities, you need to change your choices. Starting healthy habits is good but you need to identify when you want to use and what choices you have." Is that simple enough?
I agree.Discussing things on a bulletin board is academic, especially when someone says "I have the magic bean that answers all questions".
That is the center of the vortex.Sorry but telling someone "You need to get your life priorities straight" is very vague advise.
Who is the one inventing volumous, nebulous explanations that are completely unnecessary?But when someone claims to have obvious magic answers to complex reality, well that is academic.
Ultimately someone with a drug or alcohol habit resolves to themes of willpower, meaning, values, and priorities to replace it with something life affirming.But then it is also not helpful to say "I have the One Ring to Rule Them All."
I take it back. It isn't common.Common sense again?
You know, responding into my lovingly worded rebuttals by diving into David Jay Jordan's stash is the height of disrespect..How long have you been on this board and you still talk of common sense? I sense a thread with your name in the title soon, not in this sleepy little tide pool, but in the deep water.
It is pointless reading into behavior that much, because ultimately you do not have a medical problem, but a psychological one. It is ephemeral, a human preference, albeit destructive, that they make. Why do people become addicted to Cannabis? Because it provides a variety of entertaining and interesting effects, that are especially appealing to someone in a less than exciting situation. Do I need to read into why their situation is uninteresting to determine this, no I do not. A nod does fine, and the solution is easy.Again causality is more complex than the changes in behavior, I am not the one saying "Here is the single universal cause of addiction". That is a subject of debate, and a separate issue than "What Can An Addict DO?"
I knew someone with anorexia for several years, and know more than I want to about the underlying psychology of it. May I suggest getting to know one, or you refuse to believe in that definition either.You made the dumb statement about anorexia nervosa that will be the first thread with your name in the title, you had a chance to explain yourself in this quiet little tide pool, how will you fare in the deep water?
Do you know that learning is a higher mental function, and interacts with base motivations, to result in human behavior?Duh, what do you think behaviorism is, look before you leap much?
Yes.This is constantly exploited by marketing corporations all the time, especially those targeting youth. NPD's and ASP's are also observed to have very predictable, deterministic behaviors (they are easily diagnosed by a set criteria). What are NPD's and ASPs, I am not in knowledge there.(Narcissistic Personality Disorder?)
Everyone knows that human physiology is based on ebonics.Hmm, are you saying that physiology is based in something other than physics, are you a dualist?
The universal and single cause for addiction is throwing a rug over psychological (emotional) distress. Ultimately, to get someone to quit, you have to resolve their hang-ups, or encourage a behavior that allows them to cope.You are the one saying "there is a universal and single cause of addiction". Not me. "There is one single and universal elementary particle?"
Exactly what do you think people are, machines? You approach anyone like that, especially an addict, and they will detest you."to compensate for that deficit of meaning or order in their lives" was your statement about why an addict uses, I just pointed out that the addiction provides that order and meaning in their life. But again the treatment is much easier than any vague statement like "You need better priorities and some order and meaning in your life" and similar moralistic and useless crap.
(Brother Philip heroically stifles his laughter, forcing his facial muscles from contorting upward..) You got me there. I have no evidence Sade was a sex addict. Can't imagine why anyone would assume that..Wonder away, show your evidence?

