Dustin Kesselberg
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You havn't proven anything to anyone but yourself.
Explain. Be specific. Address everything i've said and point out how I have failed to prove anything.
You havn't proven anything to anyone but yourself.
Explain. Be specific. Address everything i've said and point out how I have failed to prove anything.
you can not prove that what imus said was neither racist or sexist.
This is a silly thing to say. Both "ho" and "nappy" have sexist and racist connotations respectively, and so their use in a derogatory manner inevitably has lead to some people interpreting the sentence as both a racist and sexist one.
Explain. Be specific. Address everything i've said and point out how I have failed to prove anything.
I already gave you a way to accomplish this.
Blindfold. Dartboard. Dart. Refutation.
If you have proven something, it becomes fact.
Just because you think your opinion is right, does not mean you have proven anything.
You're clearly unable to point out how anything i've said in this thread is false or fails to prove my points.
"Ho" can simply mean a male prostitute as well as a female and thus doesn't necessarily have sexist connotations.
"Nappy" is purely the way hair is and could apply for either white or black people.
Just because someone "interprets" it as racist doesn't mean that was Imus' intentions.
He didn't say it to any men, although he did say they looked like men.
Wrong. I'll link article Mephisto posted in the other thread that you should respond too.
It might not have been his intention, but he should have known after having a history of making like comments, his time would come.
Explain.
What government controls are being advocated?
Show evidence.
And what "others"? I haven't seen a single person on this forum, in this discussion, talk about government controls. So once more, your argument was weak in this context, as no one here is advocating any form of government control.
A moment if you will, some of us work and dont spend all day on this forum.
BTW there is a world outside of the this and other internet forums, where what people do and say actually do influence laws and our future.
I wasn't referencing 'others' as to posters on this forum. I will get the links for what Al Sharpton and OTHERS are proposing.
I know. Just because you insult a woman doesn't mean your insult is necessarily sexist. If I call a woman "fat" it is insulting but not 'sexist'. Why? Because both men and women can be fat. If I call a woman a 'ho' it is insulting but not sexist. Why? Both men and women can be ho's and it is thus sexually ambiguous.
Already addressed it.
The word 'nappy' has its hurtful roots in slavery
POSTED: 10:36 p.m. EDT, April 12, 2007
NEW YORK (AP) -- Call it "the other N-word."
Since slavery times, "nappy" has been used to malign the natural hair texture of many people of African descent: dense, dark and tightly curled. So when Don Imus referred to the women of the Rutgers basketball team as "nappy-headed hos" -- a widely condemned remark that got him fired Thursday -- it cut deeper than many who are unfamiliar with the term might realize.
Even today, with natural black hair in full bloom throughout pop culture, "nappy hair" remains a sensitive issue -- especially, as with the original N-word used so casually by many blacks, when a white person uses it.
"When Imus says 'these nappy-headed hos,' his first flaw is he's using an in-group term that's loaded," said Lanita Jacobs-Huey, associate professor of anthropology and American studies and ethnicity at the University of Southern California.
"When I hear it from someone who doesn't understand the depth of pain, they just don't have the right to say it," said Carla Lynne Hall, a singer from Harlem.
The pain goes back to slavery. Whites saw blacks' natural hair as a negative attribute, a contrast to the European standard of "ideal" beauty. As a result, even blacks started to look down on their own natural features.
http://www.cnn.com/2007/SHOWBIZ/TV/04/12/nappy.hair.ap/index.html
He did know better. He wasn't thinking about it. It was a mindless comment he made. That's all.
Mephisto said:For the record, his wife has (after the meeting with the Rutger's team last night) publicly stated that the hate mail the women are receiving should stop, and, "if you want to send hate mail, send it to my husband."
My respect for his wife has gone up, and if Don Imus agreed with her statement, my respect for him has gone up as well.
Ironically, I respect Don Imus far more than I respect certain people that attempt to defend him.![]()
However, it's a step forward that the public airwaves are no longer sponsoring this type of behavior or speech that is injurious to minorities of all types.
Believe it or not, me too. I takes a lot to apologize for doing something stupid and I actually would have preferred he not lose his job (although I would have gone along with something a little "stiffer" than a two-week suspension), but that was the decision of his employer and no one else. No one can convince me that his employer was "pressured" into firing him, they ALWAYS do what is best for business and it became clear that Imus was a liability.
Second of all, even then, they don't do what is best for business, but instead what they THINK is best for business.
I stand gratefully corrected and would agree with you here.![]()