About the ruler: I mentioned general relativity earlier, but now I think that was probably a red herring.
Yes, the front end will bend into the hole under the force of gravity (and I think the bending also results in a deceleration of the front), but let's assume an "ideal ruler". Much like an ideal string is massless, this ideal ruler is absolutely rigid; it doesn't bend.
But then you change your mind:
The posed scenario is that the ruler is traveling across the table at a high relativistic speed (say 0.9999999999c). (An unstated assumption was the presence of a suitable gravitational field.) From the viewpoint of the ruler, the hole in the table is greatly fore-shortened, and at no point is the ruler's center of mass over the hole without both ends still supported by the table. So, a naive conclusion would be the ruler does not drop into the hole.
However, from the table's viewpoint, the speedy ruler is greatly fore-shortened, and as a result spends most of its time traversing the hole with neither end supported. So, it should drop.
The two viewpoints have apparently contradictory final outcomes.
I believe, though, the paradox is resolved by realizing the end of the ruler must bend downward as it starts passing over the gap. So, even from the ruler's vantage point, it still ends up in the hole.
Yes, I agree. Bending is the key. There's no such thing as a rigid body in relativity. A rigid body is one whose parts all move simultaneously, and there's no such thing as simultaneity in relativity. (Roughly speaking.)
I think I answered that in an earlier post.
To make the answer clear:
The ruler won't drop into the hole, regardless of Lorentz contractions. At the speed of light (and assuming a 1G field,) the ruler will drop less than the diameter of a hydrogen atom while crossing a twelve inch hole. The surface roughness of the table presents hills and valleys that are hundreds if not thousands of times bigger.
Yes, for the particular case of a foot-long ruler. But we can imagine a really long ruler trying to fall through a really long hole in a really long table. Then it will have plenty of time to drop.
If I drop a rod "horizontally," someone zipping past at near the speed of light will see the rod dropping "tilted," with the amount and direction of the tilt being frame-dependent.
How does that solve the puzzle?
The puzzle is that it seems to be frame-dependent whether the ruler drops in the first place, because in one frame the hole is too short to let the ruler drop at all (if the ruler is rigid). If it doesn't drop, you don't get the tilting.
If G is high enough, then the ruler will tilt.
Tilt? Or bend?
If the ruler is rigid, why would it tilt if it passes over a short hole? However strong gravity is, the same gravity is also pulling on the majority of the ruler that's over the solid part of the table, thus preventing it from tilting into the hole.
I could just as easily expose the rod to a momentary high-G acceleration to change its line of flight slightly, and then leave it in a slightly different inertial frame... and the question is wheher or not that changed line of flight impacts the table or passes through the gap.
The thing is that you are subjecting it to massive instantaneous velocity changes at relativistic speeds.
So really you need to look at the two sections of the rulers course independently. The first is sliding along the table the second is as it is moving downward.
Momentary? Instantaneous? Simultaneity is relative.
"The ruler" doesn't have "a" course. Each bit of it has its own course, which doesn't affect the course of any other bit until enough time has passed for light to travel between the two bits.
If in one frame the back of the ruler is over the hole at the same time that the front is, and in another frame the back of the ruler is never over the hole at the same time that the front is, this is just another way of saying that when the front is over the hole it doesn't care whether the back is also over the hole or whether it isn't. The front will move the same way at that moment in either case. The back can't help hold up the front just because the back is "now" over the table. The "message" that it's over the table hasn't yet had time to reach the front.
Now with the relativity of simultaneity you will get weird bending in some reference frames as you need to specify which reference frame the whole ruler turns simultaneously and then it will not be a simultaneous change for other reference frames.
Yes. Bending.
But why would the whole ruler turn simultaneously, in any reference frame? In all reference frames, the front reaches the hole first and gets pulled down a bit by gravity, and some time is required for the back to "find out" about this event.