...he did have a long illness which kept him in bed for a long period of time...
INFIRMITY FOR A WHILE…A nurse friend from San Diego came and took care of him for part of that time, and I can only imagine that it was extremely stressful for her to live with his rigid requirements and discomfort. I met her. It seemed to me that she avoided speaking to him, or being anywhere near him. He had the good grace to speak well of her. He also had a friend who stayed with him and took care of chores. His friend later ended up in prison for murder, of which everyone I talked to though he was innocent.
A close friend of his, who is an engineer for a major aerospace company, got the company alternative therapy lady to come see him, burned some sage on a cookie sheet at the foot of his bed (it may have been more complicated, but that’s how he described it), and even though it was quite painful, he came out of it immediately.
It left him with the bad knees. He could pretty much walk to the car, drive, and walk into the restaurant for breakfast (and lunch and dinner), but that was all. He didn’t like to drive any distance, like to Pasadena, so I drove him there for the alternative health events. He had another friend who had given him a lot of help on another project, who strongly recommended exercise even if it had to be artificially administered with electrodes at the top and bottom of the muscles on the inner thigh (the ones that go first and are the hardest to get back), but as cheaply as this friend could have helped him, as convenient as he could have made it, and as much as it would have helped him, he refused, preferring to hobble uncomfortably from apartment to car to restaurant
He used a Hoby-Cart when he went to swap meets and alternative health events, but did not take it on the airplane to the Science Congress...
In the last six months or so that I lived with him, I pretty much collected all the bills and paid them as we went along, including the hospital bills, mostly without mentioning it to him. (Although I can tell you that if you have a big hospital bill, and offer to pay it in cash, they will probably give you as much as a 50% discount.)....
HIATAL HERNIA…He had a hiatal hernia, and was not able to keep anything down. One of his “Black Boxes” seemed to be helping him lose weight, a life-long struggle for him. If he hadn’t gotten Botox treatments for the hiatal hernia, he would have spent more of his last few years very uncomfortably. These Botox treatments were at least six months apart. He thought the “Black Box” was helping him lose weight, and I’m sure it was good for his health, but it was the Hiatal Hernia that was really making him way too thin. Everything he ate or drank came right back up!....