We are really a mixed-up breed.
Humm, I cannot say if art and beauty are necessary for humanity's survival. I can say that without it I would not have survived. This does not make what you say entirely untrue, just that it is untrue for me.
When I write that I sound a lot like a religious friend of mine. When I walked away from a religion I spent my entire life in, he responded as if my disbelief was a threat to him. He was going through some hard times and in his words 'faith and belief was all he had'.
The same beliefs and faith that held so much meaning to him were destroying me. I don't really have words that provide an answer to that paradox, or even a way to approach coming to the truth of it. There is a rather dark perspective that the 'greater idea' of our shared religion was willing to sacrifice me so that others might believe.
Thanks, Kopji, for a message that is for me edifying, it makes me feel better. An aside: wished people could always react in that manner -- now someone is going to shout profanities on me for sucking up to you.
Have we ever had some strong exchange in time past here?
For me the message board is just that, for posting messages and hoping to read some reactions that can contribute to one's further knowledge of man and oneself, for one's guidance in the business of making something of life and time and space, before one finally willy-nilly is thrust into the departure train, which is as far as I know a harsh and most unwelcome train. Kevorkian has a good idea about making your own departure train, to render it smooth, easy, and quick -- since we have to take it willy nilly, why not use our last resources to have a smooth, easy, and quick ride, or make it, the last experience of consciousness, as enjoyable and as if it never ends insofar as our consciousness is still conscious to us.
I never tried Buddhism but always am curious to find out why Westerners should go for it; and that is why it is so engrossing as a hobby of research, into Buddhism and the why Westerners go for it. But then Westerners also go for any and all the religions even the latest ones just as the most ancient or primitive ones of the most 'darn' speculative kinds (and their founders did not even know what is speculation and what observation).
Your friend says that "[He was going through some hard times and in his words] 'faith and belief was all he had'."
And your disbelief or jettisoning of your lifelong belief he feels is a threat to his which is his raison d'etre for being and acting?
Tell him faith is purified and strengthened by all kinds of threats from all directions, even from the people who love him most and best; but you will continue if you like the activity to talk about disbelief in religion.
In my case, I fashion my religion to make it personally soothing to myself, like an art form. Art, isn't that of the affective domain as distinct and often opposite to the cognitive domain?
So I fashion my religion to make it positive for myself, and the way I see it, Buddhism is an essentially negative world view: it starts with suffering, promises relief, but it looks perfectly like the doctor assuring you of relief by giving you an anesthetic injection from which you will never ever awake. And that is why it is an amusing topic, Buddhism, to study for a pastime.
Yrreg