True, I should have been more clear. Being as honest as I can with myself the explanation that there was someone that I responded to is the best one, not that I was 'tricked' in some way into believing that.
Now I think it is a fair point to say where is the hard evidence because I feel that way if someone claims that ghosts exist, they talk to the dead, someone was healed at a service. If hard evidence were found for telepathy and it could be modelled and repeatable tests conducted that found it occured you would go, 'that surprised me', but now it is part of the observable, testable world so has ceased to be woo, but I don't think it would be necessarily life-changing (unless you could do it yourself perhaps!).
I'm not sure I get what you mean. Of course there are a lot of things that were formerly thought by many to be impossible (like television) which are now commonplace. One could even argue that they have been "life changing" since they have significantly altered our society.
But even so, when they were proposed, they were always proposed to be things that would be objectively verifiable to everyone. Sometimes spiritualists have proposed similar things, but so far, it has always been shown to be just plain old trickery. That has proven so true that these days that most of those who propose some sort of spiritual power rarely even bother to claim that what they assert to exist can be objectively verified. It is always something like, "you will feel it in your heart" or "you will hear the words, but no one else can".
It is so difficult to get any objectively verifiable spiritual claim that the Randi million cannot even attract sincere applicants.
I'm rambling 'cause I'm not sure what you intended to communicate here.
But I am saying that encountering God could be life-changing, and so much for the better. If you can, put aside all thoughts of the church, established and not established, and crap, boring or frightening and irrational services, and think instead of being quiet, stilling the emotions and the mind, controlling the breathing and waiting. Such an activity might be the start of something, and if not, it is good for the body to relax for a few minutes regularly! I am trying to contrast ghosts, for instance, which might be of interest to the mind only, with God, who could transform the whole of one's life (for the better).
I don't doubt for a second that accepting God as real can be life-changing for the better -- or for the worse (see stories of Slingblade and Roadtoad). That a religious catharsis can change your life is not really at question. The question is whether what you have accepted is actually real. If your life has been changed positively by accepting God, then I am very happy for you. A number of people here, including myself, can relate how their lives were improved by discontinuing belief in God. You might even say it was a life-changing experience.
That says to me, again, that it is your
experience that changes you, not an actual God.
To try and experience God you don't have to pay anything or give control of your life to anyone but just be open to the possibility.
I am quite open to the possibility. In fact, I would
welcome evidence of a truly loving God. I'm afraid that the God described in the Bible doesn't fit that bill, but I suspect that if there is a loving God, the Christians are
very wrong about His nature.