...In any case, I used to shudder from all those TV commercials that claimed that "Milk is a natural!" For babies, yes. For adults, No! But if you can drink milk with no problems then more power to you. But if you can't, then you have to consider that it's just biologically natural. I'm not saying that being able to handle milk isn't natural, just that it should be no biological surprise that a lot of people can't tolerate the stuff.
My sister was born lactose intolerant (she was a premie). Funny... other people drinking milk does not bother her, and neither do the commercials. She seems to understand what affects her does not necesarily bother other people. The funny thing is that she still eats cheese while I am avoiding the stuff (because of my high cholesterol).
There are also lots of people who cannot tolerate all sorts of other foods. Along with real allergies for peanuts, tree nuts, soy, eggs, shellfish and others... there are whole swaths of people who cannot tolerate alcohol (very common with Asians)... PLUS there are those who are gluten intolerate --- yet we do not see a campaign to rid the world of wheat, nor any of the other things.
For some reason cow milk is what is being mostly demonized. Often with false information being used as noted in the OP. I once had one guy tell me my son had his seizures because he drank milk. When I explained that the child was 2 day old infant and had only had breast milk... he then try to tell me it was because
I drank milk.
Plus the "it is not natural" arguement falls flat when compared to food often eaten by the "No milk" contingent. For instance tofu does come from the soy bean without lots of preparation (including fermentation), and for that matter soy milk is not exactly the natural state of the soy bean (plus it is one of the top dozen food allergies).
Another staple that is required in many areas is cassava... but that can't be eaten until the
poison is removed!
Another example is blue corn... a staple of the American Southwest. The protein in it is not released until it is
boiled in lime.
Now back to the real subject: wine
luchog, while I like good strong reds like shiraz and zinfandel (the latter is getting harder to find a good one), I also like merlots and cabernets. But for different reasons. Also the quality really depends on where it is grown, the year and the winemaker. We did once have a Beringer Cabernet from their Knight's Valley vineyard that was almost as potent as an Australian shiraz (Knight's Valley is full of obsidian, so it really concentrates to flavor of the grapes).
Still, I am not too fond of port. I have a friend who loves port and we have tried some of her favorites. I do have some Whidbey's Port on hand to make the sauce for a pork roast (it is covered in onions, thyme and sage... some stock in added with port in the last hour of roasting... that is strained and reduced down for the sauce... I like it served with a Pinot Noir).