And the reason I didn't join the military is because I don't take orders, and I'm not a tool. And FYI, being in the military isn't "serving your country". I know it's part of military propaganda, but it's BS. You're serving the interests of the government.
Crescent wrench?
Let's take the serve the country idea, the Constitution, civilian control of the military, by structure and walk the dog, shall we Tony? "Serves the country" is a convenient shorthand for a slightly more complex relationship.
The land and people are what make up a country, a nation state, under some agreed framework. In America's case, that would be the Constitution. The people create (in America's case, by voting) a government, which then undertakes to pursue (by structure) the interests of the country. (Of course, in practice, it can be argued that government now and again pursues interests that may not be purely in the country's best interest.)
Regardless, it is under the premise that the actions of the government generally pursue the country's interests that the structure is coherent, and sustains over time.
Given the problem of scope and scale, the military establishment is created and funded, per the articles of the constitution, to raise armies and maintain a navy, to, if nothing else, "provide for the common defense" and by following acts of Congress, and the Executive, since framing, a whole lot else in the name of National Security activity. Put differently, the purspose of the Armed Forces is to fight and win the nation's wars. The wars are chosen by the people's duly elected representatives, and their executive, in this Republic.
The military answers to the Congress (the people's duly elected representatives) for administration and funding, and to the Executive (operations) as explicitly spelled out in the Country's constitution. The armed Services, and each member of it, serve at the pleasure of the President. (That was in writing on my commissioning paperwork. ) The President, the people's duly elected executive agent of government, is by the framing document to serve the nation and the constitution. In our Constitutional republic, that means that by three direct linkages, the armed services serve country made up of the people via the president and the government, who serve the Constitution on behalf of the people who sent them to Washington to do so for the good of the country, as originally defined.
Whether or not the government well and faithfully serves the interests of the people, in all cases, is an entirely different matter.
It isn't propaganda, Tony, it is the formal relationship defined by the structure of this Constitutional Republic, and the acta that have been approved via Constitutional processes.
Yes, before you point this out, many's the imperfection between theory and practice.
DR