Well, woodwater, I dunno. Let's just say I'm not very impressed.
First: I don't believe I am the "leader in the relationship" of my marriage. To me, that sounds like one of those statements that you can say to anyone, and for people who want to believe it, it will ring true. It's similar to telling people that they are creative, or bright, or "a bit rebellious". Everyone likes to think that about themselves.
I met the man I am married to in 1994, and we married in 1995. Your dates of 2001, 1991 and 1993 don't work for me at all. From 1987 through 1994 I was in a different relationship. Likewise, 1980 and 1981 were not particularly important years for me as far as love affairs go. I was with the same guy from 1976 - 1986.
Perhaps your program just automatically picks the years that someone is 19-20 yrs old, because that's when many fall in love or get married?
The one place I might say that what you said is somewhat true is the "important to find your soul mate" thing. Although, I don't believe in "soul mates", it has been important to me to find a good life partner. It has not, however, in my opinion, been "the most important thing in my life".
I'm not particularly impressed by that though, as I would guess that many many people would say that finding a good life partner is very important to them. If you were to ask all people on this board if finding the right life partner is important to them, I would guess that the overwhelming majority would say "yes".
So, you have not said anything really that is personal or unique to me that might not also be true for perhaps most of the people on the planet. Anywhere that you stated specific dates, the dates were not correct.
Hope this helps,
Meg