All human behaviours are natural. Two humans agreeing to be monogamous or not is natural behaviour for humans.
Humans have great plasticity which allows us to express and alter behaviours based on environmental factors to an astonishing degree, environmental factors include other humans.
What you appear to be considering a "traditional" family is the "nuclear family" - mum, dad and 2.4 kids in which mum stays at home only working in the house, father goes out and earns the exchange medium to look after the family. Is that correct?