John Freestone
Graduate Poster
It's weird how much I agree with you whilst still thinking your views make no sense at all. You say "Transpeople care about gender roles," and that this is due to indoctrination, and it confounds you. Yes. And that is key to understanding my position that 'transpeople' is a fundamentally flawed concept. If you follow your own logic, a 'transperson' is someone who cares so much about gender roles (through indoctrination don't forget) that they fixate on their gender expression, measuring all aspects of themselves against other members of their sex and comparing them with members of the opposite sex, and come to the conclusion that they should have different labels, maybe were actually born with a body-mind mismatch. And there has been a concerted effort by the activists to make everyone introspect about their 'gender identity' - the thing that confounds you, and you keep trying endlessly to reify.The social indoctrination is that gender roles should be something that you should care about. Transpeople care about gender roles and so do people in this thread, and I guess everyone does, which confounds me. Change the labels to sex and solve the problem.
You buy into that and reinforce it by using those exact same qualities to judge that someone female is a man (only men, you think, have big muscles, wide shoulders, and facial hair), and by defining gender as someone's feelings (again, always based on sex stereotypes), and by likening it to clothing we put on as we feel on the day, and by aping the activists' pronouns, "they/them" all over the place.
I'm finding it impossible to square all that. I wonder if you can see what I'm saying. The way to make gender vanish is to recognise that it isn't a thing, it's just a subjective judgement of sex stereotypes that are indoctrinated into us as defining what the sexes should be like.
It's right what's being told to you about the militant end of the movement, they don't care about your labels on toilet doors, but on the victim end too, people, kids, think they are a particular gender (by which they literally mean sex) on the basis of what they like and don't like. And that's putting them on a conveyor belt towards separation from themselves and their families, sterilising medication, and surgeries that permanently damage perfectly healthy organs. In their thousands!
Saying there are female men can only collude with the gender cult. The fix the labels need is a simple reaffirmation of what we all knew for millennia, and have been in all the dictionary for centuries: men and boys are male; women and girls are female, and 'gender' is a polite term for 'sex' or a linguistic category.
