Thermal
August Member
Ya you're totally OK with killing unarmed people that pose no imminent threat of serious bodily injury and/or death, but an ineffectual punch that blows off steam delivered to a consenting target is beyond the pale?You did, by implication. "she got mad and punched me in the face three times". I'm assuming she punched you (and not someone else) because you're the one who made her mad. If someone else made her mad and she punched you in response, well, that's even worse.
Your wife was a violent person.
ETA:
I should have kept reading. It is indeed worse. Your wife is (or at least was) a violent person. And your excuse, that her violence doesn't do any significant damage, doesn't keep your wife from being a violent person. It's fortunate for all involved that she is evidently weak, but she's still violent. Just like those chihuahuas who are always growling at everyone are aggressive dogs. An aggressive chihuahua is less of a problem than an aggressive St. Bernard, but it's still an aggressive dog, and still a problem.
The fact that you are OK with your wife's violence towards you is disturbing. It does not suffice that she did no serious harm. You should not find that sort of behavior acceptable, because it isn't.
You're taking a lot of extra time to change the subject, and snip out direct challenges to claims you assert.