That's all great, and I agree, but it's not what theprestige and I were talking about.
theprestige likes to frame the dilemma as "all men want the ability to transgress sex segregated spaces any time they want".
That's not theprestige's framing. Their framing is essentially males who claim a transgender identity want the legal *right* to transgress sex segregated spaces any time they want; the functional outcome of giving this *right* on the basis of self-declaration is that all males would then be able to transgress those boundaries at their whim.
Not all males want that right; but if you give the right to
some males then you have de facto granted it to
all males.
There's quite a bit of question begging baked in there. Most obviously, the "trans exemption" doesn't apply to all males. Like, it has nothing to do with me, and over 99.5% of other males.
Why on earth do you think this? For it to only apply to some specific subset of males, there has to be an objective and easily verifiable way to sort males into the category of "real trans" and "other". How, pray tell, are we supposed to do that?
How would a random female human tell the difference between you in a skirt being not-trans and Eddie Izzard being real-trans?
But secondarily, it bakes in the idea that a rest room was and always has been a sex segregated space. If it was, we wouldn't be having this debate.
I'm really tired, Thermal. Regardless of your intent, you're effectively playing a game here. Bathrooms haven't be *legally* separated on the basis of sex - but only because we didn't use to *need* a law about it. Everyone in the damned country knew - and still ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ knows! - that they are separated by biological sex as convention, and have always been intended to be such. Nobody, even the truest true believe thinks they were unisex and it was just a serving suggestion. You know it, I know it, everyone knows it. So please, please stop playing this game of "Oh, it's not true that they've always been separated by sex!"
It's always been a little wishy washy, with routine casual transgressions and no legal enforcement for "violating" it.
It hasn't been "wishy washy", it's been
discretionary. Prior to about a decade ago or so, females had the discretion to tolerate males if we decided to... but we also had the authority and the accepted functional right to evict any male that we did NOT want to be there. And the entire rest of society would support our eviction.
I don't believe that you can't understand this shift, and why it matters.